TONGUE RINGS AND ORAL SEX!

[november1227]

HELLO, about three months ago I was seeing this women whom I ENGAGED IN ORAL SEX WITH 4 TO 5 TIMES(I WAS THE RECIEVER).Each time she would take the head of her tongue ring and insert it into the head of my penis. SHE INFORMED ME THAT SHES HIV POSITIVE ON YESTERDAY.DOES THIS MEAN THAT IM INFECTED ? (EVEN IF I EJACULATED INTO HER MOUTH)?PARDON THE GRAPHICNESS. PLEASE HELP ME WITH AN ANSWER...

[Ann]

Nov,

Thank you for re-posting your question in the appropriate forum. I trust you've now read our posting guidelines and willl abide by them. Cheers.

I hope you also read the Transmission Lesson when you read the Welcome Thread.

Getting a blowjob is NOT a risk for hiv infection. It doesn't matter that she's hiv positive. It doesn't matter that she has oral piercings. Getting a blowjob is simply NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not one single person has ever been infected this way and you won't be the first.

Considering the thread you originally posted in, I'm going to hopefully beat you to the punch with the answer to what's likely going to be your next question. The debate over oral sex being a theoretical/low risk concerns the risk level to the person who is GIVING the blowjob. Not the guy getting blown. Getting blown is NOT a risk where hiv is concerned.

Here's what you need to know in order to retain your negative hiv status:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together. To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex with a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through all three condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER GETTING A BLOWJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results. Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple.

Ann

[november1227]

Thank you so much for your very informative answer. may you truly be blessed...