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I Just Tested Poz / Re: Worried...?
« Last post by Randomgrl on Today at 07:08:24 pm »
Thank you. I figured as much but the doctor I spoke to still gave me pep because of the small cut I explained even tho he didn't cum. Which is what made me worry. Maybe she did it is calm me, idk but thank you regardless
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I Just Tested Poz / Re: Worried...?
« Last post by leatherman on Today at 07:03:37 pm »
yes, this is the wrong section. you should have posted in "Am I Infected?" category. but don't worry we'll get it moved.

As to your situation, HIV is transmitted through unprotected anal or vaginal sex or by sharing injection needles. Clearly you did neither, so you had no risk for HIV.

Have a great day,
Michael

Reducing Your HIV risks:
With no exceptions, use condoms correctly and consistently for anal or vaginal intercourse
Talk to a healthcare provider about PrEP as another layer of protection

Get tested yearly for HIV and other STIs.
If you don’t use condoms and/or PrEP, test more frequently

Some sexual practices described as safe in terms of acquiring HIV still pose a risk for other more easily acquired STIs. It is possible to show no signs or symptoms from an STI so testing is the only way to know.

Get tested at least yearly for STIs, including but not limited to HIV, and more frequently if condomless intercourse occurs.

What’s the ONLY way to know if you’ve been infected by HIV or an STI?
Get tested.


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I Just Tested Poz / Worried...?
« Last post by Randomgrl on Today at 06:47:15 pm »
Well, I'll try to explain everything I can here and not waste my 3 posts

I'm a female, one night (may 10th few days ago) I got drunk at the bar and did some coke too, went home with the bartender and some of his friends and partied a little more as aforementioned. One of the bartenders friends was there at the house and eventually me and him kissed some and I gave him oral. I feel like a lot of it was sucking his soft dick though lol. He was drunk and coked up too so he wasn't very erect, if at all. I was messed up but I know he didn't fully cum. Perhaps pre cum I'm unsure. I had one bite mark/slice in the inside of my cheek because coke makes you clench and bite your jaws I believe. I don't recall any bleeding but idk. I also don't know if I had it during oral or not but it's in the back by my wisdom teeth.

If he didn't fully ejaculate, and we didn't have any intercourse, do you think I'm okay regardless or the bite mark and his unknown status? I am aware of other stds of the throat. Was PEP needed?

Thank you

Edit: mods I posted this in the wrong section I apologize I don't know if you can move it
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I Just Tested Poz / Re: Hi all... feeling a bit lonely 🙁 no one know
« Last post by Jim Allen on Today at 03:33:47 pm »
@Smokiboy43

Sorry to hear about your struggles. I think part of this is still you coming to terms with the diagnosis. Have you talked to a therapist?


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I Just Tested Poz / Re: Hi all... feeling a bit lonely 🙁 no one know
« Last post by Jim Allen on Today at 03:28:24 pm »
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was looking to try to send you a personal message, but I couldn’t find the way.

That's my fault. I by mistake made you a "Do I have HIV" member yesterday, but fixed it now.
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Research News & Studies / Re: EBT-101
« Last post by Jim Allen on Today at 10:47:31 am »
I see poz.com are now also reporting this update.

CRISPR HIV Gene Therapy Disappoints in Early Study
https://www.poz.com/article/crispr-hiv-gene-therapy-disappoints-early-study

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EBT-101 recipients who stopped antiretrovirals experienced HIV viral rebound, but similar therapies may hold more promise for herpes and hepatitis B
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Mental Health & HIV / Re: Top 3 things that improve our Mental Health
« Last post by Jim Allen on Today at 03:02:31 am »
@Jesminnovak

Hiya, and welcome to the forums.

As you are new here, please post an introduction thread either in the "Just tested positive" or the "Living with HIV forum" to let us know a bit more about you, such as how long you have been living with HIV,  how you are doing, how the treatment is going, etc.

It is standard for new forum members to introduce themselves. Thanks
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Mental Health & HIV / Re: Top 3 things that improve our Mental Health
« Last post by Jesminnovak on Today at 02:45:32 am »
PTSD is no joke, it's like carrying around a backpack full of bricks every day. But hey, you're not alone in this. There's a whole community here rooting for you, myself included. And remember, reaching out for help is a sign of strength, not weakness.
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I Just Tested Poz / Re: Hi all... feeling a bit lonely 🙁 no one know
« Last post by Tonny2 on Yesterday at 10:14:43 pm »



             ojo.           Hi there… Forgive my English too, it is my second language, I speak Spanish. Where are you from?.It breaks my heart to read you, but I think that you are leaving in a toxic relationship, if your wife is not supporting you I will move out of the house And try to start all over again because there is life after an HIV diagnosis. Cannot change the past but you can start doing something now to try to have a better future either with someone else or alone so you can continue with your business and your life.  I was looking to try to send you a personal message, but I couldn’t find the way. We are here for you, hang in there and I hope somebody else chime is here to give you some moral support… Wishing you the best and if you find a way to send me 8 PM , feel free to do it. I’m not psychologist, but I am older than you and have some with them specially in how to deal with HIV… Ha hugs
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I Just Tested Poz / Hi all... feeling a bit lonely 🙁 no one know
« Last post by Smokiboy43 on Yesterday at 06:56:28 pm »
Hello all , here more info about how my life is going since last year when u found out
January 2023.

Sorry for my English
I'm not English native.

So I was starting feeling small medical issue and after almost one year I ask the doctor to make full blood test

And the message come.
My hart was bump, I was sure life is finish.
I had very hard days and didn't sleep well 
I was started treatment and my body start to recovery..

So all my info is on my other posts.
Now after 1.5 year here my story.

So I started on VL 2 MILLION / CD4 48
Today my CD4 580 / VL 40
My body is very week I understand now why they suggested sport..
So when I'm doing sport j feel much better
So if you read that... make a lot of sport is very very important. 

Because of my current status I become more close I'm afraid always someone will know, the only one who know is my wife ,
We do leave together but she is unhappy to find out I got it and she assuming I cheat
And she is very update why I was un protected and put her on risk
She don't have nothing but this what happens

So we not in the vest place on our relation
We dont sleep anymore
I dont even feel her support in my feeling
Because I do have a lot of time self blaim and her attitude not help at all
Because I can't talk about my feeling with no one and very loanly ... ( is very hard ))

On my work I lost lots of options to make my business successful and I also face financial problems,  🙃
Not that j don't make money, just i don't have similar financial income and I start lost confidence...
So it make my life more harder

I dont have the availability option to make-up my self and buy some happiness
Like travelling or just enjoy ... in same level like you can with be worries.

So I start become closer and affried and start disconected from ppl around and spend my days only focus on working ...

I do become very stress with any small medical issues ,
I still affried from some side effects of the biktarvy 💊  , the Internet full of bulshit ...
Guys don't read it if will make you depressed

So from time to time I still think I fuc  ..my own life for just sex ..
And always affried to kiss,  sex I don't have
Even to try out is not an option I don't want to cheat my wife but it looks I donr here

I'm not sure how I can recover my life when my head keep thinking death is closer 😕

I dont have any support
I'm too embarrassed to share someone
I have big kids
Italy here napoli is hard place for ppl like me
If someone know my kids will be suffering.

I was growing with knowledge about being positive,  I don't think about my case most of the days, I live with the pill in peace and pry for some injection yo let me forget ..

Now my test lab is every 6 month and etc time I'm panic from bad news of pills side effect or other deasese...

Omg 😲 😱 😲
I fucket up my life in my head
My social life is dead
My wife become even not a friend just my kids mum and the woman who asking me financial support only.

Now next time going to check
Prostate,  dick skin for issues , langs, liver , and all others issues

I'm very stress like always it will be in 3 week and I start become stress again .

I dont know how to bring back my life back
I move out from our room to my guest house
I dont even go out I working online
I'm made on my current status

And the worse
I know what ever I will do...
 I can't get read of this shit 😒 😑 😫 😭 😪

Omg ..

Ok guys 👦
I'm sharing here I dont have other place

My ententionHello all , here more info about how my life is going since last year when u found out
January 2023.

Sorry for my English
I'm not English native.

So I was starting feeling small medical issue and after almost one year I ask the doctor to make full blood test

And the message come.
My hart was bump, I was sure life is finish.
I had very hard days and didn't sleep well 
I was started treatment and my body start to recovery..

So all my info is on my other posts.
Now after 1.5 year here my story.

So I started on VL 2 MILLION / CD4 48
Today my CD4 580 / VL 40
My body is very week I understand now why they suggested sport..
So when I'm doing sport j feel much better
So if you read that... make a lot of sport is very very important. 

Because of my current status I become more close I'm afraid always someone will know, the only one who know is my wife ,
We do leave together but she is unhappy to find out I got it and she assuming I cheat
And she is very update why I was un protected and put her on risk
She don't have nothing but this what happens

So we not in the vest place on our relation
We dont sleep anymore
I dont even feel her support in my feeling
Because I do have a lot of time self blaim and her attitude not help at all
Because I can't talk about my feeling with no one and very loanly ... ( is very hard ))

On my work I lost lots of options to make my business successful and I also face financial problems,  🙃
Not that j don't make money, just i don't have similar financial income and I start lost confidence...
So it make my life more harder

I dont have the availability option to make-up my self and buy some happiness
Like travelling or just enjoy ... in same level like you can with be worries.

So I start become closer and affried and start disconected from ppl around and spend my days only focus on working ...

I do become very stress with any small medical issues ,
I still affried from some side effects of the biktarvy 💊  , the Internet full of bulshit ...
Guys don't read it if will make you depressed

So from time to time I still think I fuc  ..my own life for just sex ..
And always affried to kiss,  sex I don't have
Even to try out is not an option I don't want to cheat my wife but it looks I donr here

I'm not sure how I can recover my life when my head keep thinking death is closer 😕

I dont have any support
I'm too embarrassed to share someone
I have big kids
Italy here napoli is hard place for ppl like me
If someone know my kids will be suffering.

I was growing with knowledge about being positive,  I don't think about my case most of the days, I live with the pill in peace and pry for some injection yo let me forget ..

Now my test lab is every 6 month and etc time I'm panic from bad news of pills side effect or other deasese...

Omg 😲 😱 😲
I fucket up my life in my head
My social life is dead
My wife become even not a friend just my kids mum and the woman who asking me financial support only.

Now next time going to check
Prostate,  dick skin for issues , langs, liver , and all others issues

I'm very stress like always it will be in 3 week and I start become stress again .

I dont know how to bring back my life back
I move out from our room to my guest house
I dont even go out I working online
I'm made on my current status

And the worse
I know what ever I will do...
 I can't get read of this shit 😒 😑 😫 😭 😪

Omg ..

Ok guys 👦
I'm sharing here I dont have other place

My extention is just talk and clean my hart a bit from my feelings .

For all newbies
Life is defently better after some time
But I think support around you is the key   🔑

Unfortunately I need to keep walking on that blank and white 😩 road

Thx  is just talk and clean my hart a bit from my feelings .

For all newbies
Life is defently better after some time
But I think support around you is the key   🔑

Unfortunately I need to keep walking on that blank and white 😩 road

Thx
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