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Author Topic: My life is weird...  (Read 1300 times)

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Offline delilah07

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My life is weird...
« on: September 05, 2021, 11:59:47 pm »
I'm a cheater. I was contacted by an exboyfriend. He wants to meet me in a month. He plans to travel the three states over to see me. My spouse has been viewing men online. So right now we aren't intimate. I'm making plans to see this ex. My husband has cheated. I just pretend it isn't true. My daughter is happy and that is all that matters. She has both her parents.
I write this here because a journal is too risky.

Offline skeebo1969

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Re: My life is weird...
« Reply #1 on: September 06, 2021, 01:44:32 am »

I'm sorry you are dealing with this.  It sounds horrible... 

All I can say is both you and your husband deserve to be happy.  That happy is not together.  We only get one shot at life so you might as well make the most of it, ditch him.   

I am not judging you for seeing the ex.  I can understand needing some affection.  I will say as an outsider reading about the situation the ex may not be the answer either.

Keep sharing and venting, it helps.  I wish you nothing but the best.
I despise the song Love is in the Air, you should too.


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