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Offline Karoman

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what should i do?
« on: June 25, 2020, 12:09:36 pm »
hello there
i hope that every thing is good for all the team of poz.com
3 days ago i had an intercourse with an unkown man
we had a hard  play sex , while that intercourse i had some cuts on my chest and nose
(it was fresh and bleeding ) when my partner cum on my chest and fist sothat his cum directly contacted my cut
the day after i was scared as i has his phone number i called him and asked him about his hiv statute he said that he don't know because he did not had a test since two years
i am really scared because i am sure that cut was fresh and ther he did cum and there was a direct contact
is my risk a high risk ?a what time should i test ?
thank you so much

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Re: what should i do?
« Reply #1 on: June 25, 2020, 12:54:54 pm »
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while that intercourse i had some cuts on my chest and nose
(it was fresh and bleeding ) when my partner cum on my chest and fist sothat his cum directly contacted my cut

Not an HIV concern.

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3 days ago i had an intercourse

Presuming you used condoms for the intercourse this is not a real-world concern either. HIV can't transmit through an intact latex or polyurethane condom. If a condom fails during the act of intercourse it's obvious to the insertive partner. There is no reason to be stressing or testing outside of standard routine as long as this obvious issue did not happen.

If this was your only sexual encounter then relax and move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider talking to your healthcare provider about PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards

Jim

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Offline Karoman

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Re: what should i do?
« Reply #2 on: June 25, 2020, 01:02:28 pm »
dear jim
thank you so much for fast replay
there was not an anal intercourse
just the story of the contact of his cum  with my fresh cut (with blood) how can this be not contagious can you explain to me please ?the cut is not a door for the virus ?
also i recived a blow job and we deep kissed but no anal intercourse
i'am really very scared jim imagine i could even not sleep
thanks again and sorry for insisting

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Re: what should i do?
« Reply #3 on: June 25, 2020, 01:11:39 pm »
Hiya,

Kissing is not an issue, and receiving a blowjob is no HIV risk to you either. It lacks all the conditions required for acquiring HIV,  thus it makes sense that after nearly 40 years of this pandemic in terms of BJ's there hasn’t been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked") and you will not be the worlds first.

You can't get HIV from or through small cuts, day to day wounds, scrapes, puncture wounds or skin issue. It's not an entry point and HIV is fragile and the receptors used to infect corrode once exposed to the environment outside the confines of the human body and nobody has ever acquired HIV that way.

If this was your only sexual encounter then relax and move on with your life.
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Re: what should i do?
« Reply #4 on: July 02, 2020, 02:56:51 pm »


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