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Offline leo garcia

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Oral sex and FROT
« on: February 05, 2020, 02:11:38 pm »
Hello, sorry for my level of English.
My query is as follows and I will be explicit in it
A more than a week ago an unknown guy brushed his penis with mine to do FROT for a few seconds, then he gave me oral sex for a few minutes but then I gave up and left, he also wanted to put his fingers to my butt while he sucked me but I just let my buttocks touch, the next day I told my case to a nurse and she prescribed a dermal cream that contains Clotrimazole (1g) and Gentamicin (0.1g) around my genitals, but the next few days I felt a tingling sensation and cramp in the testicles and part of the groin so I stopped using the cream and they disappeared, although not quite, that feeling comes back when I spend it thinking in anguish of what I might have.
My question is how likely am I to be infected by hiv? the truth is that I have anguish for friction, I have read that the pre-seminal fluid is not potentially infective, as I said, it was only a few seconds of friction and they were some samples of oral sex in which he sucked my entire cock.
P.S. Today I had a routine blood and urine test and in the results I have elevated bilurribine ((++) 2 mg / dl in urine and 1.81 mg / dl of total blood bilirubin). This has worried me more since it could be Hepatitis
If it were the case, would there be any relationship of transmission of any hepatitis with HIV? That is, if I have been infected with hepatitis, will I also get HIV? I am worried, please I hope you answer me Thank you!

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Re: Oral sex and FROT
« Reply #1 on: February 05, 2020, 02:30:46 pm »
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A more than a week ago an unknown guy brushed his penis with mine to do FROT for a few seconds, then he gave me oral sex for a few minutes but then I gave up and left,

Not an HIV concern. If this was your only sexual encounter then HIV is not an issue.

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would there be any relationship of transmission of any hepatitis with HIV? That is, if I have been infected with hepatitis, will I also get HIV?

Look if you do have hepatitis it does not change the way HIV can or can not transmit. The theory of an STI "increasing" the odds of HIV transmission is if you have a preexisting STI causing lets to say as example inflammation or open sores and you engage in an activity that is already an HIV risk, let's say unprotected intercourse it might increase the likelihood of HIV being transmitted however it does not create a risk where there was none to start with.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Oral sex and FROT
« Reply #2 on: February 05, 2020, 05:00:01 pm »
Okay, your answer gives me peace of mind, so a possible infection with some type of hepatitis is totally independent of an HIV infection in my case, right?
I have to admit that I am very anxious and today receiving the results of high bilirubin has made me think many things in addition to returning with the strange sensations in the groin (I do not feel inflammation and not bulging to the touch) and at the tip of the penis it gives me A feeling of cold when I finish urinating, will it be a psychological aspect of my distressing thoughts or symptoms of a related health problem?

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Re: Oral sex and FROT
« Reply #3 on: February 05, 2020, 05:04:55 pm »
Okay, your answer gives me peace of mind, so a possible infection with some type of hepatitis is totally independent of an HIV infection in my case, right?
I have to admit that I am very anxious and today receiving the results of high bilirubin has made me think many things in addition to returning with the strange sensations in the groin (I do not feel inflammation and not bulging to the touch) and at the tip of the penis it gives me A feeling of cold when I finish urinating, will it be a psychological aspect of my distressing thoughts or symptoms of a related health problem?

If this was your only sexual encounter then HIV is not an issue.

Follow-up with your doctor about the lab results & issues and treat if needed whatever is making you sick. I do hope you feel better soon.

Remember to use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward. Do get fully tested at least yearly for STI's including but not limited to HIV.

Jim

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Re: Oral sex and FROT
« Reply #4 on: February 12, 2020, 09:08:37 pm »
In fact, I've only had a single sexual encounter.
I have a question, what risk of HIV infection would exist if in oral sex the penis could touch or rub with sores or wounds in the mouth, if there were any, although, in my case, I remember that my genitals had no wound or opening that sits or is visible? Solve that question please

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Re: Oral sex and FROT
« Reply #5 on: February 13, 2020, 01:51:12 am »
Unless your "what if" includes blood was pouring from his mouth requiring medical attention but instead he sucked my penis first the answer is going to be getting your penis sucked is no HIV risk and there are after 40 years zero documented cases and you will not be the worlds first.

Move on with your life, continue to use condoms for any intercourse, no exceptions. As you are sexually active test out of standard routine at least yearly for STI's & HIV
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