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Offline Papa123

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rolled up condom
« on: January 24, 2020, 12:31:58 am »
Hello All

3weeks ago i have sex encounter with a sex worker

she did a bit of lick and unprotected oral sex on my penis and then she put on condom for me

i was not very hard when i penetrate her and the erection failed halfway when i pull my penis out the condom was rolled up half way and hanging. Then i pulled the condom back and use KY jelly to rubbed my penis to get erection again. Then i was able to ejaculate inside the condom inside her vagina when i pulled out i see a lot of liquid inside the head of the condom

my question is
1. can her liquid get inside the condom while it was rolled up halfway inside her vagina and pass HIV to the Tip of my Penis

2. can the rubbing of KY jelly get inside the condom and pass HIV to the Tip of my Penis

im worried because 2 weeks after the incident i have a sore throat

Thank you for taking your time to read this

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Re: rolled up condom
« Reply #1 on: January 24, 2020, 12:48:42 am »
Relax, what you posted does not warrant HIV concern.

Stop stressing about the sore throat and see your doctor to treat it. I hope you feel better soon

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP going forward as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as safe in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other easier to transmit STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Offline Papa123

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Re: rolled up condom
« Reply #2 on: January 24, 2020, 12:53:42 am »
So it is not possible for HIV to get inside the condom and get to the tip of the penis?

and also i forgot to mention that i did oral sex for the woman as well just licking the clitoris

Thank you

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Re: rolled up condom
« Reply #3 on: January 24, 2020, 12:58:16 am »
Hiya,

Not the way you fear. Let me be clear, what you posted is not an HIV concern, so relax and move on with your life.

Keep using condoms for any intercourse no exceptions and like every sexually active adult test at least yearly for STI's & HIV out of routine.
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Re: rolled up condom
« Reply #4 on: January 24, 2020, 01:02:54 am »
Thank you so much

Appreciate what you guys are doing :D

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Re: rolled up condom
« Reply #5 on: February 05, 2020, 09:49:58 pm »
Hi Jim

So sorry to post this again

I went to test for HIV at 30days post exposure because i want a peace of mind

and the result was Non Reactive

But Yesterday which is 33days post exposure i suddenly notice a swollen lymph node on the side of my neck , i don't have any flu or fever

so with this test its now confirm that only this incident is within the 3 months timeframe

I am so worried right now , i have trouble sleeping , cant focus on work , no apettite because some other site i read in my country(Thailand) said that my kind of exposure is a risk same as non-protected vaginal sex

Please help me Jim ,im really worried :'(

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Re: rolled up condom
« Reply #6 on: February 06, 2020, 01:18:34 am »
I hope you feel better soon, see a doctor and treat whatever is making you feel unwell but in terms of HIV move on with your life!

Continue to use condoms for any intercourse and test at least yearly out of standard routine for STI's & HIV.

Relax, what you posted does not warrant HIV concern.

Stop stressing about the sore throat and see your doctor to treat it. I hope you feel better soon

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP going forward as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as safe in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other easier to transmit STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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