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Handjob and Anal Fingering
« on: November 07, 2019, 12:02:11 pm »
Hi

Iím so scared I have caught something. Iím not sexually active nor have been. But I have been going to Asian Spas for 2 years. For the most part itís a nice massage with a handjob finish.

However a couple of times there has been anal fingering involved. I donít know if there was any blood on the fingers of the masseuse or if it had access into my mucous membranes.


Can you pls tell me the HIV risks involved with either a handjob or anal fingering. They seem to be low risks but I am getting into a relationship and wonder if I should get tested.

I have had a couple of boils as well and some small rash.


Thanks

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #1 on: November 07, 2019, 12:07:13 pm »
Hiya

I read your post three times. Nothing you mentioned was an HIV risk, not even the "what if's". Relax and move on with your life!

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I am getting into a relationship and wonder if I should get tested.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as Ďsafeí in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #2 on: November 07, 2019, 12:17:15 pm »
Thank you ! It feels very comforting to hear that.

Just to re-iterate one last time , even if they had blood on their hands and inserted this into my butt , it wouldnít be a concern for HIV ?

I thought that would be a condition of the risk being listed as low.


Thank you again for your advice

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2019, 12:23:15 pm »
Hiya,

Asked & answered.

Look fingering is not an HIV concern, fluids on fingers also not an issue, HIV is fragile and corrodes on exposure outside the human body, next to a few other barriers to this concern.

Anyhow the short of it is despite scrapes, and day to day cuts etc there has never been a documented case of HIV transmission via fingering, you will not be the worlds first either.

If she had cut the end of her finger off requiring urgent medical care and fingered you with the bloody stomp instead of seeking urgent medical care, I would say you had a theoretical risk at best however still no need to run out and test and I know that sounds like an extreme example but lets cut to the chase on this concern, so I am sure you would have noticed being covered in blood hence my assessment is no risk.

Relax  ;)


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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2019, 12:25:16 pm »
Thank you, This has be very helpful !

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2019, 12:25:50 pm »
You're welcome and good luck with the relationship
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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #6 on: October 16, 2020, 05:34:04 pm »
Hi

Sorry to be back, but I had cooled off on the risks stated above for a while. However, while I still did not have any intercourse the handjob and anal fingering experience is still on my mind and is driving me crazy.

I also forgot to mention I had a received a condom blowjob once (not provided by me, so I don't know if it's possible to taint it)

I also rubbed my body on hers from the back, my penis was erect when rubbing, don't know if fluids could have touched my body from hers this way

Reason I am anxious again is because:

1. I developed sinusitis for 7 months , and while it's slowly going away it has been a tough road - I searched up possible causes and HIV was listed as a primary example

2. I developed folliculitis on my butt

I feel healthy and well otherwise. This will be the last time I post, just wondering if I should start to feel worried now..

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #7 on: October 16, 2020, 05:39:57 pm »
Hiya,

Sorry to hear that you are worried at the moment, however, the fact is receiving a blowjob is no HIV risk to you.

It lacks all the conditions required for acquiring HIV,  thus it makes sense that after nearly 40 years of this pandemic in terms of BJ's there hasnít been a single documented case of HIV transmission to an insertive partner (the person being "sucked") and you will not be the worlds first.

You did not acquire HIV from this activity or through rubbing, fingering, getting handjobs all for pretty much the same reasons.

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Sinusitis is common, usually the result of a cold or flu virus, sometimes bacterial infections etc etc ... This is like thinking stubbing your toe is the primary symptom of a brain tumor  ::)

Folliculitis is also a common condition, regardless of HIV status. Stop googling stuff, it's just causing you stress for no reason whatsoever, see your healthcare provider and treat it.

Also, I am aware you posted not to have had intercourse but should you ever have intercourse remember to use condoms.

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« Reply #8 on: October 17, 2020, 08:07:31 am »
Thanks for the advice. I felt I understood your points the first time
However the googling of symptoms made me a little concerned.

Iíll also use condoms in the future.


Thank you

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #9 on: October 17, 2020, 08:28:04 am »
You're welcome.

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However the googling of symptoms made me a little concerned.

Stop googling, your left testicle and right arm could fall off, it's not going to change how HIV is or isn't transmitted.   
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