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Handjob and Anal Fingering
« on: November 07, 2019, 12:02:11 pm »
Hi

Iím so scared I have caught something. Iím not sexually active nor have been. But I have been going to Asian Spas for 2 years. For the most part itís a nice massage with a handjob finish.

However a couple of times there has been anal fingering involved. I donít know if there was any blood on the fingers of the masseuse or if it had access into my mucous membranes.


Can you pls tell me the HIV risks involved with either a handjob or anal fingering. They seem to be low risks but I am getting into a relationship and wonder if I should get tested.

I have had a couple of boils as well and some small rash.


Thanks

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #1 on: November 07, 2019, 12:07:13 pm »
Hiya

I read your post three times. Nothing you mentioned was an HIV risk, not even the "what if's". Relax and move on with your life!

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I am getting into a relationship and wonder if I should get tested.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid HIV infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as Ďsafeí in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also, note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages

Kind regards

Jim
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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #2 on: November 07, 2019, 12:17:15 pm »
Thank you ! It feels very comforting to hear that.

Just to re-iterate one last time , even if they had blood on their hands and inserted this into my butt , it wouldnít be a concern for HIV ?

I thought that would be a condition of the risk being listed as low.


Thank you again for your advice

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #3 on: November 07, 2019, 12:23:15 pm »
Hiya,

Asked & answered.

Look fingering is not an HIV concern, fluids on fingers also not an issue, HIV is fragile and corrodes on exposure outside the human body, next to a few other barriers to this concern.

Anyhow the short of it is despite scrapes, and day to day cuts etc there has never been a documented case of HIV transmission via fingering, you will not be the worlds first either.

If she had cut the end of her finger off requiring urgent medical care and fingered you with the bloody stomp instead of seeking urgent medical care, I would say you had a theoretical risk at best however still no need to run out and test and I know that sounds like an extreme example but lets cut to the chase on this concern, so I am sure you would have noticed being covered in blood hence my assessment is no risk.

Relax  ;)


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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #4 on: November 07, 2019, 12:25:16 pm »
Thank you, This has be very helpful !

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Re: Handjob and Anal Fingering
« Reply #5 on: November 07, 2019, 12:25:50 pm »
You're welcome and good luck with the relationship
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