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Protected vaginal and bare rubbing
« on: July 23, 2019, 03:47:16 pm »
Please help me guys.
Yesterday I received a protected (I hope it was indeed) sex from a CSW. She sucked my penis bare until I got erection.
She applied the condom with her hands and mouth. We had brief intercourse for about a minute. During the sex I felt the condom moving, but it didn't broke nor slipped. It covered my penis, but the base and the bottom wasn't covered, and it had some of her fluids. I took of the condom with care and it seemed good to me and it's expiry date was years ahead.
after the intercourse I was horny for a second time, and she gave me body to body massage and rubbed my naked penis with her vagina, I'm afraid because the tip of my penis accidentally got in her vagina opening for a second.
that's my case. Is PEP warranted in my case? Should I go for testing?

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Re: Protected vaginal and bare rubbing
« Reply #1 on: July 23, 2019, 03:53:34 pm »
Hiya,

I read your post carefully three times, nothing you posted warrants any HIV concern. Relax, move on with your life!

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time,no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Protected vaginal and bare rubbing
« Reply #2 on: August 01, 2019, 04:33:40 am »
I'm here again. Im sorry Jim for posting too much. But for the last 2 days I have this strange fatigue, and I developed few itchy bumps in my hand, and I lost my appetite. My main concern was about 2 things, first about her vaginal fluids on my penis base which the condom didn't cover as it was only covering the top part and my urethra. And the second concern is when my penis tip for a micro second got in her vagina opening. If those 2 things didn't cause concern for hiv then what would have? And specially in my case? Thanks again.

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Re: Protected vaginal and bare rubbing
« Reply #3 on: August 01, 2019, 04:42:09 am »
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I have this strange fatigue, and I developed few itchy bumps in my hand, and I lost my appetite

Initial HIV does not give you itchy bumps on your hands, plenty of other things do. Anyhow look, nothing you mentioned is HIV specific and instead of stressing about what it could be simply go see your GP and treat it.

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first about her vaginal fluids on my penis base which the condom didn't cover as it was only covering the top part and my urethra.

Fluids on the base is not an HIV issue, there is no route for HIV infection. It's merely an issue for other easier to acquire STI's

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And the second concern is when my penis tip for a micro second got in her vagina opening.

Look lets cut the game here, either you penetrated her with your penis or not? 

Tips and Micro seconds is either trying to deny intercourse or paranoid "what if's" fear post a rubbing session. You tell me?


« Last Edit: August 01, 2019, 04:46:26 am by Jim Allen »
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Re: Protected vaginal and bare rubbing
« Reply #4 on: August 01, 2019, 01:16:49 pm »
I didn't penetrate her as like in dipping. I told you my penis tip accidentally shovled her vagina opening.

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Re: Protected vaginal and bare rubbing
« Reply #5 on: August 01, 2019, 01:25:23 pm »
Your penis bumping/shoving/rubbing against her opening is not an HIV risk.

If what you posted here was your only sexual activity in life, then relax as HIV is not a concern. 
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