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Offline Larry

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Worried to Death
« on: February 07, 2019, 03:40:00 pm »
I am a married man and had a bi-sexual meeting with a guy.  I gave him oral sex but he could not cum or get a erection.  He did not give me Oral sex, only me to him.  I noticed when we walked into his house he said that he was getting over-Guillian-Barre' Syndrome.  He said he didn't know where he got it.  Maybe the flu.  I asked if he had HIV or Aids and said no, no he didn't have Hiv and that he was tested about 90 days ago.  Well before performing Oral sex I looked him over and seen no STD's and he said he had nothing, no STD's.

Well two days later, I now have Herpe's look like Blister's in my mouth.  Inside my cheeks and inside my lower lip and inside my upper lip.  I don't use any drugs and I take care of my mouth-Dentist visits and brushing.  He lied.....I read where Gullian-Barre' Syndrome sometimes is a infection due to HIV or other virus's.  I had no open wounds or bleeding gums.  I read where Hiv positive people may have Herpe's2.  What is My Risk??  Can't sleep or think.  Thanks
« Last Edit: February 07, 2019, 03:57:53 pm by Larry »

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Re: Worried to Death
« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2019, 03:59:48 pm »
Hiya

Guillain-Barré syndrome is simply an autoimmune disorder,  its highly rare and the triggers (observational) seem to be common viruses to everyone like the flu, stomach flu's and lung infections.

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I noticed when we walked into his house he said that he was getting over-Guillian-Barre' Syndrome.  He said he didn't know where he got it.  Maybe the flu.  I asked if he had HIV or Aids and said no, no he didn't have Hiv and that he was tested about 90 days ago.  Well before performing Oral sex I looked him over and seen no STD's and he said he had nothing, no STD's.

Irreverent and as for looking him over you can't tell by looking at someone if they are living with HIV or not and many STI's are still infectious despite no symptoms and he could have tested  for HIV today it means nothing to you.

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Well two days later, I now have Herpe's look like Blister's in my mouth.

Herpes is common most adults will have one or the other type of herpes. The fact you have an outbreak within 2 days would suggest you have been living with it longer and simply having an outbreak. See your pharmacists for treatment.

Anyhow back to what you are here for and the service offered, your risk assessment:

The virus is very fragile, and your mouth has dozens of protein and enzymes that damage the receptors rendering it unable to infect.

Giving a BJ is such a minute HIV concern, regardless of what happens when you floss that we simply don't even recommend testing over it. No need to panic or stress over every BJ given in terms of HIV, just get tested the next time you are due for a regular checkup.

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I am a married man

Okay, well if you have been or are engaging in unprotected intercourse with your partner as example does meet all the biological conditions needed for acquiring HIV.

Now I don't judge couples that decide to engage in unprotected intercourse, its often based on trust within a relationship, however just note this trust or faith does not prevent HIV and any unprotected intercourse is simply accepting a possible risk to you of acquiring HIV.

Test regularly, understand the risks.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP in the future as an additional layer of protection against HIV

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Worried to Death
« Reply #2 on: February 07, 2019, 04:03:16 pm »
Thank You so much. :)

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Re: Worried to Death
« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2019, 01:57:36 am »
You're welcome
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