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« on: February 02, 2019, 06:42:52 pm »
hello and good day thank you for reading my post, i found out about this forum and wanted to ask something that is stressing me really bad, yesterday i went out with my girlfriend and we drinked, everything normal except we ended up in a motel everything fine i bought some condoms and we had protected vaginal sex, i realized the trojans i bought were a little small for my dick, the condom wanted to roll up but i managed to use my finger to keep it there, we were almost done and nothing happened, but at the end we were on the climax and i was in top of her and she came then i wanted to pull out but i felt the condom was slipping from my penis, i pulled out and the condom almost sticked in her vagina but when i pulled out it was still covering a part of my head, I then tooked it out and threw it, my doubt here, I pulled fast and it was still covering some part of my penis head because i had to take it out when i stand up, am i in risk for something? it was too fast I dont think my penis was unprotected for a long time there , but is there any risk if the condom only sticked a little in my head when i pulled out? im really stressed thinking about this, sorry for the details and thank you so much for you time and effort

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Re: big doubt very worried
« Reply #1 on: February 02, 2019, 06:54:39 pm »
Hiya,

Sounds like you simply part slipped out of the condom whilst pulling out after intercourse. Not a HIV concern to you, relax and move on with your life

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions. Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV protection going forward.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs
Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: big doubt very worried
« Reply #2 on: February 02, 2019, 07:43:20 pm »
thank you so much for your quick reply and help! so should i test over this incident? am i in risk for any std or hiv? because it was in the end and when i was pulling out i felt it was slipping so i was able to grab it when it was still covering the head , i was a bit drunk but i remember perfectly that i had to took it out at the end from the head when i stand up, also i pulled out fast and didnt stayed there a second or 2, thank you so much again !

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Re: big doubt very worried
« Reply #3 on: February 02, 2019, 07:51:56 pm »
Hiya,

Already answered no HIV concern stood out, no need to run out and test or panic.

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am i in risk for any std

It's safer sex, not safe sex . Although nothing mentioned was a HIV concern some infections (Not HIV) are transmitted primarily by skin-to-skin contact, which may infect areas not covered by a condom ( Such as genital herpes, human papillomavirus [HPV] infection, syphilis, and chancroid).

However no need to panic or test for every STI everytime you get your leg over either, just keep using condoms for any intercourse and like every sexually active adult should test at least yearly out of standard routine
HIV 101 - Everything you need to know
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