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Risk Assessment
« on: January 07, 2019, 02:17:43 am »
Hello,

First of all i am sorry for my English as i am not a native speaker.

4 days ago in thailand i had a wicked night starting wit 4-5 beers complete with dozens of alcohol and find myself with a transgender lady at my hotel.

I told her not tondo anything till the morning but she wants more than i do then i told a lie which is stupid i know that i am hiv + then she want me to her blowjob i remember roughly i hold her balls and in the end ejecaluate into herself i remember again if this is the case i remember licking her lips. But i had my underwear with me then she take a shower couple of mins later i made masturbation while she was playing with phone. I am really scared about this issue i ask her how can you be so confident she told me we did not had penetrative test so i cannot catch hiv from you.

Most of you will say she has more education than you i can understand that view.

In the end i told her to go she said we can be friends that is all.

My concern if i had precum and or semen in my hand while i masturbate.

Now i have something like bronchitis not a mild one just coughing and some sinus problems.

Could you make an assesment about my risk.

Thank you very much.

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Re: Risk Assessment
« Reply #1 on: January 07, 2019, 02:52:37 am »
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My concern if i had precum and or semen in my hand while i masturbate

This is no HIV risk whatsoever.

I am not sure about the BJ story if she gave you a blowjob or if you gave her a blowjob??

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Re: Risk Assessment
« Reply #2 on: January 07, 2019, 03:02:14 am »
sorry i read it myself and i cannot understand as well.
I was with underwear and i made a handjob to her. In the morning i chrck myself i did not have any cut but i have egzama aleays ib my habds.  She couldnt do for a while and i stop doing handjob just hold her balls while she was doing with herself. She ejecaluate into herself belly just couple of drops. Then she left to shower and i go on sleep then she turn back 4-5 minutes later. She dod not touch me at all but i masturbate myself. Then when i finish masturbation i told her i will sleep while o was in shower she was leaving. As i am drunk i dont remember toucging smeen but i can. Moreover i dont understand why but wile i was taking shower my penis was really hurting but i am sure she did not touch even if i want it maybe that is why i told her i am hiv + .

Do you think do i need to test ? Is Ars can be so early 3-4 days as i am coming from -10 now it is 30 but i have bronchitis it is weird .

I tested couple of times which was the latest 120 days after my last relation.

or should i go with my life as nothing happened and learning drinking responsibly :)
« Last Edit: January 07, 2019, 03:04:27 am by veryworriedasusual »

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Re: Risk Assessment
« Reply #3 on: January 07, 2019, 03:08:26 am »
Yeah, relax and move on with your life.

You had no HIV risk from this encounter whatsoever.
HIV is limited & highly fragile and not aquired in the way you fear.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.  Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention going forward.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as safe in terms of HIV might still pose a risk for transmission of other far easier to acquire STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

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Re: Risk Assessment
« Reply #4 on: January 07, 2019, 03:14:15 am »
Thank you for your reassurance. When i read in the internet there are lots of myths about HIV even i read there are cases for biting spitting etc. i am concerned. May i ask one more question and that is all is egzama like a wound ?

Thank you and happy new year all.

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Re: Risk Assessment
« Reply #5 on: January 07, 2019, 03:24:07 am »
No and stop reading mytys or outdated options without context online, it's just going to scare you for no reason.

Your concern was not a route for HIV to infect, it also lacked all the bilogical conditions required and all must be met simultaneously for even a theoretical risk

Hence nobody has ever been infected the way you fear - None!

Take it easy.

Jim

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