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Plz Help
« on: January 05, 2019, 05:04:06 am »
Dear Sir
Last Saturday (29th Dec 2018), i met a man online, he said he was married with kids and we decided to meet at a motel. We had protected anal sex where i bottomed but had unprotected oral. He didnt came into my mouth but i m terrified that some of his pre cum might have got into my throat. 3 days after i developed sore throat and then i got flu like symptoms, fever, and diaroeha. I messaged that man again and he said he is clean. Now i m worried and anxious that the unprotected oral has put me at risk of infection. Its 7th day today n i m still feeling down. Was i at risk of infection?

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Re: Plz Help
« Reply #1 on: January 05, 2019, 05:26:00 am »
3 days, so relax firstly your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV from this encounter also this encounter is no real HIV concern. See a doctor regarding your sore throat/diarrhea etc and treat it and I hope you feel better soon.

Regarding the blowjob, well without damage your mouth lacks the cells (route) to infect and even than the next barrier is the virus is very fragile, and your mouth has dozens of protein and enzymes that damage the virus receptors rendering it unable to infect.

Its just a near negligible risk that we don't recommended specific testing, panic or worry over a blowjob, so no need to run test, just get tested whenever you are normally next due for a regular checkup  ;)

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I messaged that man again and he said he is clean

Yeah, me too, I'm very clean and I washed this morning. Living with HIV simply does not make me dirty.

The word “clean” to indicate "HIV Negative" (or STI Negative) suggests that an HIV-positive result and therefor people living with HIV are unclean, dirty. The term "clean" can be very offensive to some people living with HIV particularly those new to the condition or people who have stigma and judgment already in regards to their HIV status.

Since this is a HIV community forum I would ask you to watch your language even if its a quote. Thank you

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.  Consider starting PrEP as an additional layer of HIV prevention going forward.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as safe in terms of HIV might still pose a risk for transmission of other far easier to acquire STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Re: Plz Help
« Reply #2 on: January 05, 2019, 05:54:20 am »
Thanks for the reply sir
I am really sorry to offend you. I just wrote what he told me. Again sorry for that.

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Re: Plz Help
« Reply #3 on: January 05, 2019, 06:00:06 am »
You're welcome.

Relax and move on with your life, see a doctor and treat whatever is making you sick, do hope you feel better soon.

Jim
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Re: Plz Help
« Reply #4 on: January 05, 2019, 06:23:55 am »
Dear Jim
I have another question, 8 weeks back I met a man with whom i had mutual masturbation, he fingered me and i remember he was producing lot of pre cum. My concern is that if his finger has pre cum on it, isnt it risky? He later told me his ex BF was hiv positive. That made me very anxious. I had a rapid test yesterday after 8 weeks and it was negative. Do you think it was a risky event?

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Re: Plz Help
« Reply #5 on: January 05, 2019, 06:39:45 am »
No it was not.

In nearly 40 years of this pandemic and over 80 million HIV cases, there has simply has never been a documented case of HIV transmission via fingering, you will not be the worlds first.

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if his finger has pre cum on it, isnt it risky?

No, HIV is fragile and the receptors needed to infect human cells corrode in contact with the environment, its one of the reasons why nobody has ever from day to day contact or sexual contact acquired HIV once the fluids have been exposed outside the human body.

Jim

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