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Offline Nick19860101

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Drunk and stupid
« on: August 08, 2018, 11:30:14 pm »
Hi All,

I was drunk and stupid have sex with sex worker.
Unprotected oral and protected sex and finish with HJ.
On the same night I notice there is a cut at my private part.
I visited doctor within 36 hours and I am pep now.

I feel so worries now and feel so sorry for betraying my wife. Am I at the high risk to get infected?

Thanks. Nick

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Re: Drunk and stupid
« Reply #1 on: August 09, 2018, 01:24:15 am »
Hi

You had no HIV risk from the encounter with the sex worker. Move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

More information on HIV Basics, PEP, TaSP and Transmission can be found through the links in my signature to our POZ pages, this includes information on HIV Testing

Kind regards

Jim

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Offline Nick19860101

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Re: Drunk and stupid
« Reply #2 on: August 09, 2018, 05:25:46 am »
Thanks Jim for the reply. Do mind to explain further why no risk?

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Re: Drunk and stupid
« Reply #3 on: August 09, 2018, 06:35:56 am »
In short:

Receiving oral sex is not how hiv is transmitted. Nobody has ever been infected from getting his penis sucked and, saliva is not hiv infectious, its also hostile towards hiv.

The habdjob is outside the confinds of the human body, fluids sexually are no longer infectious and nobody has ever been infected from fluids sexually once exposed outside the human body.

The intercourse was protected by a condom, hiv can not transmit through an intact condom and condoms shred if they fail during intercourse leaving no doubt.

All in all nothing you mentioned here poses a hiv concern

Jim

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Re: Drunk and stupid
« Reply #4 on: August 09, 2018, 10:00:39 pm »
Thanks Jim, I was so drunk and couldn't remember all the detail.

Will different type of condom make any different to the infection? (Didn't check, but don't think is broke cause it was remove for HJ)

Do you think I should still continue my pep?

Thanks and Regards,
Nick

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Re: Drunk and stupid
« Reply #5 on: August 09, 2018, 11:34:30 pm »
Hiya

If its was lambskin you would have known, also its a financial transaction no sex-worker would use an expensive and ineffective condom like that.

The PEP is up to you, all I do provide is risk assessments, you had none from what you posted so far.

Jim
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