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Author Topic: Difficult to find a woman  (Read 1671 times)

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Offline Hard2live

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Difficult to find a woman
« on: May 02, 2018, 10:53:09 am »
Us men over 55 and being 25+ HIV/HCV hVW LOST MOST OR IF NOT , ALL OUR FRIENDS,
How /where to find company / love or sex is what i find difficult.

Offline em

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Re: Difficult to find a woman
« Reply #1 on: May 02, 2018, 11:04:30 pm »
I have not tried it myself but poz personals looks promising
what are your numbers ?  meds you are on ?

twenty five years have anything to add to this post about that time

LIke I have read here a few times you are not alone

me I am a fifty something year old Us men who has been HIV positive for twenty five plus years too

Offline guitargal

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Re: Difficult to find a woman
« Reply #2 on: May 15, 2018, 11:46:09 am »
As a woman, I find it difficult to find a good man. Whether I am pos or not, many are not empathetic towards others, interested in growing and learning, furthering their education or planing properly with finances. 
I wanted a life partner, husband and all my long term relationships ended because I was strong and smart and asked for honesty and truth and they were deceptive and refused to grow. They drank or did drugs and chose that over a great woman.  Sad how I attract that. Was decieved by the lies and false plans that never came to be. No more. Where are the good men?
What a long strange trip it's been

Offline harleymc

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Re: Difficult to find a woman
« Reply #3 on: May 16, 2018, 06:24:05 am »
The women I know who are living with HIV all say they find it difficult to find a man.

They often report that the poz guys they meet are carrying around a huge load of anger and exeptionalism ie ' I'm the exception to the rule I shouldn't have HIV cause it's a gay disease'..

Anyway I'm sure if you've don a lot of hard work on yourself ( something all of us have to do) then you'll find someone compatible to have a relationship with.  Remember you don't need to find 'a woman' you need to find 'the woman' and treat her right.

Offline guitargal

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Re: Difficult to find a woman
« Reply #4 on: June 23, 2018, 01:28:43 am »
What a long strange trip it's been


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