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Pls read this
« on: December 03, 2006, 05:12:22 AM »
I wanna say people here are doing great counseling work with so much patience. Just went through some of the posts similar to my situation. Still I am gonna write my story and do need your answer.
I received a full body massage exactly a week ago. I knew there were some low risk or no risk things I was doing, like fingering and rubbing her. The only thing that concerns me is that I tried to rub her vaginal area with penis within my underwear. However, my underwear is almost worn. It is so thin like transparent. And I am sure she had a lot of vaginal fluid through my fingering. So the rubbing was like direct skin to skin contact. Hence, it didnít matter whether I had underwear on or not. But I am quite sure there was no penetration. If it did happen, both sides should know it. Right? Just a little paranoid here. I wasnít under influence of anything like drug at the moment. And I was trying to protecting myself in the beginning. That is why I put my underwear on. But it didnít go the way I expected. I meant just massage.
Should I worry about HIV? I wonít do HIV test soon since it is too early to do it.
How about other STDs which are much easier to catch? If I do STD screen two weeks after the incident, is it conclusive for all other STDs except HIV? Thanks.

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Re: Pls read this
« Reply #1 on: December 03, 2006, 07:09:40 AM »
Zero risk for your frontage.

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Re: Pls read this
« Reply #2 on: December 03, 2006, 07:27:23 AM »
Thx for your prompt reply. if no risk for HIV, how about other STDs per the description i gave? Sorry, if it is not the right place to ask.

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Re: Pls read this
« Reply #3 on: December 03, 2006, 08:17:23 AM »

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Re: Pls read this
« Reply #4 on: December 03, 2006, 08:49:02 AM »

While frottage (a word from the French that means rubbing) is not a risk for hiv infection, there is a small possibility that you could have become infected with one of the bacterial infections like gonorrhea. As this happened through your underware, it is unlikely. I really don't think you have anything to worry about, and definitely NOT hiv.

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