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Author Topic: experience think the guy is straight but is bi or really gay  (Read 3208 times)

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Offline rockchick

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I know this sounds like I am stereo typing but since i was diagnosed with HIV I have dated about 11 different guys. At least 80%  told me they were bi and prefer men sexually.  I have had so many situations where I meet someone online, talk, text and then see them on Gay HIV personals,  Yes, I look as it seems impossible to find a man that really is straight and i want to know.   I am not against it, but it is too difficult being sexual or trying to get in a relationship when they want to have sex with men.  Has other woman experienced this and why doesnt the guy just say he is bi to begin with.  I find it so deceiving,  this virus is hard enough, but when one isnt even truthful about their sexuality  Any advise,

Offline Sprackdoll

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Re: experience think the guy is straight but is bi or really gay
« Reply #1 on: July 07, 2016, 01:20:05 am »
I'm sorry and I know what you meant. I've met guys from gay bars so I'm always in wrong place to look for a man. But I always find a bi or straight ones. So  don't lose your hope. There are many guys are straight and you will find him one day.

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Re: experience think the guy is straight but is bi or really gay
« Reply #2 on: August 14, 2016, 04:37:41 am »
(Edit Jim)
« Last Edit: August 14, 2016, 04:47:04 am by JimDublin »

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Re: experience think the guy is straight but is bi or really gay
« Reply #3 on: August 14, 2016, 04:49:17 am »

Cstucken, this is the Positive Women forum and as a male you are not permitted to post in this forum. Thank you for your corporation.


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Re: experience think the guy is straight but is bi or really gay
« Reply #4 on: August 15, 2016, 05:00:15 pm »
Before I was positive, probably half the guys I dated turned out to be on the down-low. That's how I ended up with HIV. It really pisses me off that men lie about things like that and makes me have a hard time thinking any of the men I've known were what they seemed to be. I don't know why I attracted them or they attracted me. It was just wrong and I hate liars.
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