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Offline Peter_Brighton

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Feel ill and scared - oral with ejaculation
« on: June 30, 2018, 03:44:25 pm »
Hi there. Firstly, thanks for all the positive stuff you guys do on here. It's greatly appreciated.

My story: On Sunday 17th June I met a guy at a local cruising spot. I began by going down on him for a a minute at most and I could tell he want to have sex with me as he was trying to finger me. I had a condom and lube so put the condom on him and let him begin. The condom was still in tact with no defects at the point I had had enough. At one point during sex he fingered me. I don't knowif he had vlood on his finger cuticles or if this wouldpose a HIV risk?

Once he stopped I pulled the condom off and maturbated him while on my knees. He was about to cum so I let him cum in my mouth. He put it in a couple of inches so I felt him ejaculate in my mouth. I spat it out within 3 seconds and kept spitting to try to get it all out.

When I got back to the car I noticed in the back of my mouth a small sore on the roof of my mouth. Could this be a route to contract HIV and was I at risk?

5 days later on the Friday and I began feeling sick and had diarrhoea. A combination of vomitting, diarrhoea and headache followed. More diarrhoea today 9 days since first being ill and 2 weeks since the incident. How soon after HIV infection does serconversion usually take effect?

Many thanks.

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Re: Feel ill and scared - oral with ejaculation
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2018, 03:55:11 pm »
HIV most common initial symptom is none whatsoever and it certainly doesn't make you vomit, neither does it do anything within 5 days. You issues are not hiv related regardless of your hiv status, so see a gp and treat whatever is making you sick.

The fingering was not a concern, nobody has ever acquired hiv from fingering and neither were any fluids a concern on his fingers. HIV is fragile and sexually only transmitted inside the human body as in never leaving the confides of the human body.

As for giving a BJ this is a near negligible concern so much so we don't even recommend testing over it. The virus is very fragile, and your mouth has dozens of protein and enzymes that damage the virus and render it unable to infect. 

There is no need to run test every time you give a blow job, just get tested the next time you are due for a regular checkup

In short my assessment is move on with your life.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:
Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, every time, no exceptions.

Keep in mind that some sexual practices which may be described as ‘safe’ in terms of HIV transmission might still pose a risk for transmission of other STI's, so please do get fully tested regularly and at least yearly for all STI's including but not limited to HIV and test more frequently if unprotected intercourse occurs

Also note that it is possible to have an STI and show no signs or symptoms and the only way of knowing is by testing.

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