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Offline Andy Velez

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Re: burn in my mouth
« Reply #50 on: July 14, 2008, 10:02:35 PM »
Peter, I'm just going  to add on to what has already been said to you.

I don't know how really serious you are about any of the drama you repeatedly bring to the Forums, but enough is more than enough already. We're simply not going to indulge you any further. You're insulting the work we do here. If you are really serious about straightening out problems you and your bf may have, then get yourself some private professional help and go to work there.

You need to be aware that you just might be heading not just for a time out but a possible ban from the site. We're really, really tired of your stuff. Your attempts to mask what you're doing by hiding behind having an HIV positive bf is really shabby. If you can't handle the relationship then break up with him and find someone you can behave like a grownup with.

And don't make the mistake of sending me anymore PMs. That is not going to fly either.

If you're thinking I'm tired of all this, you're getting the right message. 
Andy Velez

Offline peterhelms

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« Reply #51 on: February 18, 2009, 07:14:38 AM »
When i have any kind of doubt , i come to this forum because  of Ann and Andy .
My boyfriend is positive and im negative, yesterday i bit the inside of my mouth, it didnt bleed but later on when i looked at the inside of my mouth i saw a little cut( again it didnt bleed)
3hours after i accidentally bit the inside of my mouth i perfomed oral sex on my boyfriend, he never cums inside my mouth, but there could have been pre cum.
Have there been any treansmission cases where something similar to this happenned?
What if pre cum touched the non bleeding cut, could that be a risk?
Sorry if this is a dumb question , but i come here because ann and andy tell it like it is.
Thank you.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Question.
« Reply #52 on: February 18, 2009, 07:21:35 AM »
Your questions will not be answered until you return to your Original Thread.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: burn in my mouth
« Reply #53 on: February 18, 2009, 07:53:21 AM »
Peter, I've merged your threads. By now you ought to know you're not supposed to start new threads. Please follow our rule and keep all of your entries here.

As to your latest concern, your saliva acts as a very effective natural barrier to HIV transmission through proteins and enzymes. So once again I don't see any cause for concern. 

Speaking of "telling it like it is," which you refer to in your latest questions, much of what I wrote to you last July still applies.
Andy Velez

Offline peterhelms

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new question.
« Reply #54 on: August 22, 2009, 05:26:30 PM »
The other day  my upper lip( where there is no saliva) was dry, maybe it was because  of the cold or i might have burnt myself a bit  while smoking(it didnt bleed)
I performed oral sex to my boyfriend, he doesnt cum on my mouth but there might have been some precum , if the pre cum got into the part of my lip that was burnt, could that be a risky situation?
My  lip doesnt bleed , but it was obviously dry.
Could my lip have absorbed his pre cum?
Thanks for answering , sorry if its a silly question, i  just would like to know.
« Last Edit: August 22, 2009, 05:28:48 PM by peterhelms »

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: burn in my mouth
« Reply #55 on: August 22, 2009, 06:45:37 PM »
Your mouth has saliva in it, Peter. Once again you are worrying needlessly. We're not going to go on this ride again. Even if your outer upper lip was "dry," you're getting into another "what if" event here. What if it was burned, what if he had precum, blah blah blah. That's not how HIV gets transmitted and it if were possible in such a common situation we would have known so long before today.   

This is more of your longstanding anxiety which if you haven't spoken about to a counselor or other professional, you ought to be doing at this point.
Andy Velez

Offline peterhelms

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Re: burn in my mouth
« Reply #56 on: August 22, 2009, 07:24:25 PM »


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