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Offline fingerific

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getting fingered question
« on: November 08, 2006, 12:32:21 PM »
I go for massages every now and then and I enjoy when they finger my anus while they give me a handjob. Is this unsafe? I really dont want to put myself at risk. I got really sick last year a few weeks after one of these encounters, is it possible I got infected from that?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: getting fingered question
« Reply #1 on: November 08, 2006, 12:43:50 PM »
No. Please take time to read the "Welcome" thread and follow the links to tranmission.

Offline fingerific

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Re: getting fingered question
« Reply #2 on: November 08, 2006, 12:50:24 PM »
Wow, that was a fast response...

I actually did read the thread which was very informative. However when it discusses "digital-anal" it seems like its talking or focusing more on the person doing the fingering and not the one getting fingered.

I know she didnt have any noticable cuts, but I figure that even if a tiny drop of blood would get into my anus it would be a real risk, am I wrong in my assumtion?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: getting fingered question
« Reply #3 on: November 08, 2006, 12:52:49 PM »
Yes. In 25+ years no one has ever been infected by getting fingered. That's with cuts, nicks or abraisons on the other persons fingers. It's not a risk.

Offline fingerific

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Re: getting fingered question
« Reply #4 on: November 08, 2006, 12:57:57 PM »
Thanks again RapidRod

Unrelated question

Would an hiv test show a positive result during seroconversion?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: getting fingered question
« Reply #5 on: November 08, 2006, 01:02:43 PM »
Yes, test depending. Depending if you are having an antigen test or an antibody test. It's possible to not to get a result from an ELISA being the body may have not had enough time to make enough antibodies to be detected. That being said if you are considering testing because of the above situation forget it. I'll tell you the result now and save you a lot of money and worry. The test would come back negative.
« Last Edit: November 08, 2006, 01:04:42 PM by RapidRod »

Offline fingerific

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Re: getting fingered question
« Reply #6 on: November 08, 2006, 01:12:08 PM »
Oh I appreciate that.

I actually did get tested last december when I got sick with what I could have sworn was hiv related (youve heard the symptoms questions before) so while I was sick (about 4 - 5 weeks after the last massage)  I got tested and it came back negative. But I was never able to just let it go.

I dont know what kind of test it was. I went to the clinic, they took blood, I called a number 2 days later and they rambled off some stats and then I heard the words negative and thats all I needed to know.

I still believe most of the symptoms i had were from anxiety and stress from thinking I may have gotten infected, but the thought that I may have been infected still goes through my mind from time to time and it feels good to actually ask you these questions and try to get it out of my head for good.

Thanks again
« Last Edit: November 08, 2006, 01:16:02 PM by fingerific »


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