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Author Topic: Dating again and scared of infect my partner  (Read 1007 times)

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Offline sonntig

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Dating again and scared of infect my partner
« on: May 25, 2014, 11:26:33 AM »

After years of hesitate Im finally willing to go out again, I met a guy who I disclosure my status and took very well, however when we firt had sex the condon got inside me, so we stopped and use a new one. Im kind of worried of infect him even that Im undetecable . Is there anyone who can give some their opinion about the risk of him getting poz?

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Re: Dating again and scared of infect my partner
« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2014, 12:27:31 PM »
The risk is low.  Very low, close to zero in fact. 

As this is a new relationship you would still want to use protection. Concurrent std's may increase transmission risks and as an hiv positive person you don't want to catch anything from him.  Syphillis and gonorrhea are quite prevelant now and getting harder to treat.

Don't be fancy, just get dancey

Offline sonntig

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Re: Dating again and scared of infect my partner
« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2014, 12:39:03 PM »
Hey Buginme2

thanks for ur answer, actually thats what I heard and read but still wanted to ask here, and belive me I use condom everytime no matter what, just was one of those rough times where condon got inside me haha

I hope u are doing great


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