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Offline karry

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sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« on: May 20, 2014, 03:03:11 PM »
I am devastated. I lost the baby at 9 weeks. I am trying to be strong and accept it. Drs say there is nothing I could have done to prevent it. About 20% of pregnancies are lost during first trimester.
« Last Edit: May 20, 2014, 03:05:57 PM by karry »
Take it a day at a time....and be positive about it too!

Offline Jose0205

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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #1 on: May 20, 2014, 03:23:54 PM »
This is sad to hear. I'm sorry Karry 

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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #2 on: May 20, 2014, 03:53:15 PM »

My deepest condolences on your loss.


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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #3 on: May 20, 2014, 06:33:49 PM »
Oh Karry, I am so, so sorry.  I wonder if you could check out some grief counseling?  Maybe ask your doctor for a referral somewhere?  When you're ready of course.

Please accept my humblest condolences.

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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #4 on: May 20, 2014, 09:51:52 PM »
Karry ... my heart breaks for you and I am so sorry for your loss . HUG .
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Offline karry

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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #5 on: May 21, 2014, 01:51:19 PM »
Thank you all for your support. I am not going to loose hope. Its hard but I will do my best to heal and move on. Family and friends have been great. My partner is very sad but he has been awesome and helping me cope.
Today I feel better than yesterday.
Take it a day at a time....and be positive about it too!

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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #6 on: May 21, 2014, 03:09:58 PM »
I,m sorry to hear this, keep well and take care off yourself ,m
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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #7 on: May 21, 2014, 03:31:53 PM »

I'm so sorry. You're in my thoughts.

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Re: sad...miscarried at 9 weeks
« Reply #8 on: May 22, 2014, 01:56:56 PM »
so deeply sorry...


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