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Offline Fruitloops

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Could I been infected? Here is my story
« on: November 19, 2013, 11:12:36 AM »
My story

Today is November 19.  On November 5th I had a encounter that has brought me here today. 

I am a male.  I've always lead a pretty safe sex life until recently.  I have always been straight but had curiosity about other men as I'm sure most guys so at some point in there life.    I had been single for a long time and was not having any sex.  I came across a common classified site that offers a section for people looking for sex.   At the time I was on the site looking for other things but felt drawn to post a ad on there.  I posted the ad in the men looking for women section.    I got a few replies but nothing that seemed legit or reasonable except for one from a trans sexual.   Since I had some curiosity toward my same sex I ended up agreeing to meet this person at thier house to receive oral sex.   To make it short there was a little kissing and he/she performed oral on me.  During the oral sex I did have a pain sensation some. I think it was because they where sucking really hard    Since I was nervous I never did get fully erect and think this combine with the hard sucking could be why the pain was there   This happened on Nov 5

Four or five days later I started have cold symptoms    Just a runny nose, some sneezing and coughing and felt Tired   body aches or any other symptoms were not noticeable.  This lasted about four days and stared feeling better

About seven days after I felt a light burning on the tip of my penis

About 8 or 9 days after my experience on the 5th. I noticed a few small flesh colored bumps on the tip of my penis.  When soft they are not noticeable but when erect they are noticeable but do not stand out.  They are barely raised, soft, and smal

A day or so after noticing the bumps my lips became  chapped and I noticed what appears to be a canker sore on the inside of my mouth in my bottom lip. 

I am now at the two week mark since my experience and have noticed lose flesh on the inside of my jaw.     I am a smokeless tobacco user and have had this happen before but not often. 

I went to a dermatologist yesterday and had the bumps examined she said she didn't think it was anything.  She said she's sure it's not herpes and really doesn't think it's any type of genital warts.  She said if they get bigger in two weeks to come back

I also schedule a test for hiv today but have not went to take it yet.  It's only been two weeks so I'm not sure how accurate it will be.

Does the symptoms I described above sound like I am infected with HIV or is it all a coincidence. 

Looking up symptoms on web sites I've found everything in the world.  Which has made me worry about HIV so I thought I would ask a forum specific place 

Also the person I was with said they were 100% diease free but I reallize that a person can lie or not know they have something.   I feel that since I was at thier house they may have been telling the truth.  I would not invite anyone to my house if I thought I had something.   

So anyway I've worried my self sick over this.   Any info would be appreciated

Thanks in advance.     Was typed on mobile sorry for any mistakes


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Re: Could I been infected? Here is my story
« Reply #1 on: November 19, 2013, 11:20:29 AM »
Forgot to mention it was unprotected oral.  I did not give that person oral only kissed them
« Last Edit: November 19, 2013, 11:22:45 AM by Fruitloops »

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Re: Could I been infected? Here is my story
« Reply #2 on: November 19, 2013, 12:24:18 PM »

You have NOT had a risk for hiv infection.

Getting a blowjob is NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

Before you ask the inevitable "blood in the mouth" question, unless you are in the habit of repeatedly punching a person in the mouth before they blow (or kiss) you, there could not possibly be enough blood present to cause the least hiv concern.

Not one person has ever been infected with hiv through getting blown and you aren't going to be the first.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY OVER GETTING A BLOWJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!


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Re: Could I been infected? Here is my story
« Reply #3 on: November 19, 2013, 01:09:04 PM »

I would like to thank you and the other people on this forum that comment helping to: inform, comfort, and bless others.    Thanks so much.


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