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Author Topic: maturbate with his cum , whats the risk ?  (Read 1457 times)

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Offline danieltham87

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maturbate with his cum , whats the risk ?
« on: July 25, 2013, 09:03:22 AM »
I am sorry if this topic has been posted by someone in the forum .
 I met this guy 2 days ago , he was actually around 35 and he told me he is hiv negative(and he is a doctor , i assume he someone with health concerned) . We went in the car , started touching each other , and given each other a mutual masturbation . The problem arise here , he ejaculated much more early than me , and his cum was all over my hand . After he ejaculated , i sort of like using a tissue to wipe away the cum on my hand , but due to the limited amount of paper i have at that moment , i couldn't clean it off properly , i can still feel the sticky sensation after wiping off .

He continues to jerk me off for 5mins , but i couldn't ejaculate with his pace , so i continue to jerk myself off by using the hand that already stained with his cum previously . ( i guess my hand was quite dry at this point since it was spanned in the air for 5 mins , i am not sure ) I am uncut , so when i was masturbating , i make sure i only grab the skin part of the penis , not the glans part .

I am someone who play safe , no blow job , no anal , just lip kissing and hand job .There was no cut on his or mine penis , his or mine hand .
 My question : whats my risk of getting the infection ? is nipple sucking a high risk action ?? is my way of practicing hand job safe enough , or you could recommend me a safer way in practicing a hand job ?

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Re: maturbate with his cum , whats the risk ?
« Reply #1 on: July 25, 2013, 11:09:31 AM »
To get right to the bottom line Daniel, you are worrying needlessly. Nothing you are reporting of your activities has put you at risk for HIV. HIV is a fragile virus and when exposed to the air quickly becomes non-viable.

For future reference keep in mind that the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as condoms are properly and consistently used for those activities you will be well protected.

This time there is no cause for concern about HIV nor any need for testing. Take a breath and get on with your life.
Andy Velez

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Re: maturbate with his cum , whats the risk ?
« Reply #2 on: July 25, 2013, 11:58:30 AM »
thank you so much , i like you reply , you will always end your reply by saying : Take a breath and get on with your life. And this is all we need .

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: maturbate with his cum , whats the risk ?
« Reply #3 on: July 25, 2013, 01:08:29 PM »
You're welcome, Daniel. I'm glad our exchange was helpful to you.

Andy Velez


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