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Author Topic: What is my risk?  (Read 1163 times)

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Offline Ryanworried

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What is my risk?
« on: July 24, 2013, 08:31:08 PM »
Yesterday I met a guy and we did have sex. At first, he used a condom and i gave him a blowjob (w/ condom), then he rubbed his penis in my anus (w/ condom)(he didn't penetrated), then he cum, we removed the condom, i've touched his penis, then we cleaned his cock and i gave him another blowjob without a condom, it was fast, then he get another condom and try to penetrate, i didn't feel nothing, so i guess he didn't penetrated again or at the maximum he inserted his head with a condom. He also licked my anus. I'm in risk? Sorry for my bad english i'm Brazilian and i live in São Paulo. I don't know nothing about HIV/DST that was my first sexual experience. And i'm having a really bad time trying to handle with all this doubts, i don't know if he's HIV+. He said that he didn't have any STD. I'm trying to keep calm and not worry, but i'm afraid that when he rubbed his dick in my anus something may happen, but he was with a condom. I don't know, someone can put me out of this panic status?

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Re: What is my risk?
« Reply #1 on: July 24, 2013, 09:24:34 PM »

Nothing you did was in ANY WAY a risk for HIV.

Oral sex, with or without a condom, is not a risk.

Frottage, the rubbing of genitals, with or without a condom, is not a risk.

If you use a condom for penetrative anal and vaginal sex, you will avoid HIV. It really IS that simple.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Re: What is my risk?
« Reply #2 on: July 25, 2013, 10:35:47 AM »
Thank you so much.

After that incident i've immediately brushed my teeths, and i've did something stupid i washed my mouth and anus with alcohol i was freaking over a not risk incident i feel so stupid.

I'll try to move on now. THANK YOU SO MUCH!
« Last Edit: July 25, 2013, 10:38:07 AM by Ryanworried »


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