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Author Topic: how risky was my encounter?  (Read 1638 times)

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Offline ALNASH

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how risky was my encounter?
« on: March 06, 2013, 12:11:15 PM »
Hi guys

On Saturday the 23rd of Feb 2013 i went out for a drive with a female colleague but now working out of town. We ended up kissing touching and nude. She wanted to sleep with her but i told her i wont do that without protection. She kept teasing me rubbing my penis on her very wet vagina for about 2 minutes and i quickly pushed her off took a dry cloth and wiped my penis.There was no real penetration. I asked her to come for testing with me on Monday morning but she never pitched up and her phone was off. I quickly ran to a clinic where they put me on PEP since it was still within 72Hrs. But on tuesday the 26th of Feb i woke up with a very bad cough,my throat was painful even the muscles of my ribs,came saturday night i went down with a fever and lots of sweating but it went away by sunday morning
but still coughing hoe this wasnt ARS please. How risky was this encounter guys,please help

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Re: how risky was my encounter?
« Reply #1 on: March 06, 2013, 12:15:39 PM »
At no time were you ever at risk of contracting HIV. HIV requires unprotected penetrative anal or vaginal sex.

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Re: how risky was my encounter?
« Reply #2 on: March 06, 2013, 12:24:43 PM »
thank you RapidRod
 So would you think all this symptoms i still have were just a cold or its the side effects of PEP. I really freaked because all nurses were saying the reason she switched of the phone was probably she knew she positive. I even tried calling her on Monday but she wont answer she even threatened me with an sms saying she will open a case against me for sexual harassment but one of my colleague said he just heard rumors that she is positive.

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Re: how risky was my encounter?
« Reply #3 on: March 06, 2013, 03:02:18 PM »

It doesn't matter if this woman was hiv positive or not. YOU DID NOT HAVE A RISK.

The genital rubbing without penetration you engaged in is called frottage and frottage is NOT a risk for hiv infection.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. Frottage takes place OUTSIDE the body and is therefore not a risk.

You do NOT need to take PEP over this NO RISK incident.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. Whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv nor does it have anything to do with PEP.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST FOR HIV SPECIFICALLY OVER FROTTAGE NOR DO YOU NEED TO TAKE PEP, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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