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Author Topic: Very deep, rough oral sex with positive male  (Read 3806 times)

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Offline Dan11

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Very deep, rough oral sex with positive male
« on: March 03, 2013, 03:19:44 PM »
On Feb 4th, I performed unprotected oral sex on and received protected anal sex from a guy I met on the internet who told me he was negative.  Then, after we were done, he said he was positive but undetectable!  He had a huge penis and the oral sex was very rough; I choked on it a few times.  He did not ejaculate into my mouth, though.  On Feb 19th I tested neg for an HIV blood test.  On Jan 23rd, I came down with the worst flu, headache, chills, aches, fatigue and a cough which I still have (it's been over 8 days).

I have read other posts in which you claim receptive oral isn't a risk factor for hiv, but I just don't see how you can be so sure.  Most other internet sites say receptive oral sex can be a risk (even if less) and that it is likely HIV is transmitted this way.  How can anyone truly "document" a case unless they are standing there with a pencil and paper?  If his pre-semen got on my throat, and then either it was slightly irritated or it kept getting rubbed onto my throat, couldn't it attach to my cells?  And what if some semen leaked out of the condom?  I should have assumed everyone on the internet is lying, but he said he was negative so forcefully initially I believed it. 

Thank you so much,

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Very deep, rough oral sex with positive male
« Reply #1 on: March 03, 2013, 03:25:07 PM »
At no time were you ever at risk of contracting HIV from oral sex and not from protected anal sex.

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Re: Very deep, rough oral sex with positive male
« Reply #2 on: March 03, 2013, 05:06:56 PM »
No matter what details you throw into the mix about the guy's size and roughness, etc., your saliva has over a dozen proteins and enzymes which form a very effective natural barrier against the transmission of viable HIV.

The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as condoms are used properly and consistently for those activities you will be well protected.

Your symptoms are something to discuss with your doctor. I don't see any need for HIV testing.

Andy Velez

Offline Dan11

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Re: Very deep, rough oral sex with positive male
« Reply #3 on: March 03, 2013, 06:18:43 PM »
Thank you so much.


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