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Offline stressed77

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Am I Infected
« on: February 16, 2013, 05:10:32 PM »

I did mistake. I visted massage parlor. Where girl did handjob to me without condow with baby oil. while doing I have touched fingered her and same wet hand I have touched my penis. Immidetly I removed my hand from penis and wiped hand and penis as well.

I have no cut on fingers and penis shaft also.

Is there any chance of getting HIV , I dont know about her status.

Please help me

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Am I Infected
« Reply #1 on: February 16, 2013, 05:13:34 PM »
You are worrying needlessly. There was absolutely no posibility of transmitting HIV in the ways you are concerned about in your incident.

HIV is a fragile virus. For now and for the future you need to know that the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. That's it. As long as condoms are used properly everytime for thos activties you will be well protected.

You can stop worrying and you don't need to get tested. Just get on with your life.
Andy Velez

Offline stressed77

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Re: Am I Infected
« Reply #2 on: February 16, 2013, 05:50:39 PM »
Thank you Andy,

I am too much stressed for this, cant sleep all night and just cursing myself. I have just touched my penis shaft and asap removed also , knowing that fluid may contain the HIV virus. And before that she have used baby oil on  my penis, so I wiped my penis as well.
So no risk of HIV
thanks again

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Am I Infected
« Reply #3 on: February 16, 2013, 07:47:56 PM »
You did not have a risk. Period.

Stop with the drama. Really.
Andy Velez

Offline stressed77

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Re: Am I Infected
« Reply #4 on: February 17, 2013, 12:00:14 PM »
Hi All,

So there are no chances of HIV transmission in mutual masturbation and kissing.
is it safe that I will have intercourse with my wife.

Continuing in same subject, I am going to meet my wife after two week and what i did is wrong that mutual masturbation with massage girl and having vaginal fluid on hand and penis shaft..
I dont have any cut on penis shaft and hand
Am I going to risk my wifes life with this or not?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Am I Infected
« Reply #5 on: February 17, 2013, 12:11:30 PM »
Reread the replies you have been given.


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