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Author Topic: Please help me consider my case  (Read 1839 times)

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Offline iamdown

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Please help me consider my case
« on: February 07, 2013, 10:59:07 AM »
Sorry I post on wrong forum I can not delete

I'm asain I'm not good at English. I has oral sex and hand job with girl (CSW)

by the way

1 I wash my mouth with some liquid same glass with CSW

2. I got blow job with condom but I did not finish so I start to hand job by my self with condom still on but my hand touch saliva and vaginal fluid (this come out when she do hand job for herself), unfortunately my condom was slip out and I continue hand job with the same hand that I used at first until I finish and I wash my self with only water

3. I have a healed cut (scab) on my leg while she sit on my leg, vaginal fluid contact with cut

Is this HIV high risk for me?

Offline Jeff G

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Re: Please help me consider my case
« Reply #1 on: February 07, 2013, 11:46:35 AM »
Hi iamdown . The things you have mentioned here are NOT a risk for HIV .

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, bodily fluids outside the body do not pose a risk and that means masturbation is not a risk for hiv infection.

Getting a blowjob is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

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Offline iamdown

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Re: Please help me consider my case
« Reply #2 on: February 08, 2013, 02:03:39 AM »
Really? It's not risk or small risk. Some sites take this case as small risk? By the way,I should test for HIV right?

Has someone infected by this similar case?

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Re: Please help me consider my case
« Reply #3 on: February 08, 2013, 02:47:33 AM »
Really? It's not risk or small risk. Some sites take this case as small risk? By the way,I should test for HIV right?

Has someone infected by this similar case?

It is not a risk. Not a low risk, not a small risk, it is NO risk.

No one has EVERY been documented as having gotten HIV from any of the situations you describe. Not ever.

You do NOT need to test. This is NO RISK.

Please understand that we want to help people avoid HIV. We would tell you if there was the slightest possible risk. There is not.

Also, I am sorry that some sites and some doctors like to scare people with obsolete information (or just plain wrong information.) We won't do that here. We use science, not speculation.

You had no risk and do not need to test.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Offline iamdown

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Re: Please help me consider my case
« Reply #4 on: February 08, 2013, 08:11:56 AM »
Thank you you guys very much. To clear my mind I will get PCR test next Monday.

Can I ask last question?

Mutual musturbation and Oral sex can not transmit HIV but it may happen for unlucky guy right?

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Please help me consider my case
« Reply #5 on: February 08, 2013, 08:53:35 AM »
You listening to your fears and doubts even as you have absolutely no basis in HIV science or history to be concerned.

Testing is absolutely unnecessary but if you want to continue to play around with this situation that's up to you. There's nothing more we can add at this point.

Except maybe to say stop making drama when it's not necessary.
Andy Velez


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