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anxiety help please
« on: December 30, 2012, 03:40:49 PM »
Last week I slept with a escort.. We used protection, however she used a lot of baby oil to lube her breast while I had my penis between them (condom on) she poured a lot of oil over my penis. She went on to lube herself before I entered her Virgina.. I was inside her for about 2 minutes before I lost my eraction. She proceeded to give me oral with condom on.. She then decided to ride me - before she sat on my penis she applied more oil on my penis over condom. I was inside her for about 3 minutes before I came inside her - inside the condom. When she popped off, I didn't see any need to inspect the condom I just took it off with hand wipe & flushed it down the loo & got out of there. Now, here's my concern & I have been so worried about.. I read online that latex condoms & baby oil don't mix as it weaken the condom. Some also go to say that it also creates small holes in the condom. As I was in a rush to leave I didn't check the integrity of my condom. What are the chances if their was a hole in the condom for HIV to get through? I worried more so because I came inside her with condom on & if there was a hole i would be exposed. I haven't slept a wink since the encounter, I haven't slept, my friends and family have noticed something's up.. Do I go & get tested?.. Pls reply & many thanks..

Offline RapidRod

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Re: anxiety help please
« Reply #1 on: December 30, 2012, 06:41:59 PM »
Had your condom failed you would have known without a doubt. Condoms don't get small holes in them.

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Re: anxiety help please
« Reply #2 on: December 30, 2012, 07:02:51 PM »
Thank you for your quick response rapid rod. So it's unlikely I was exposed to hiv?..
Do i go for a hiv test or not?.. I'm very anxious about this.. If the condom had broke would I have seen just the rubber ring after withdrawal?

Thank you once again for your rapid response.

Great work here by all involved..

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: anxiety help please
« Reply #3 on: December 30, 2012, 07:19:20 PM »
You are worrying needlessly. If the condom had broken you would definitely have known it because it ends up looking like a hoop with fringe on the penis. As Rod said it is not about little itty bitty holes.

There's no need for testing nor for further concern on your part.

In the future you might make clear to whomever you are with that you want to use a water-based lube and if necessary bring your own with you.
Andy Velez

Offline worriedukguy

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Re: anxiety help please
« Reply #4 on: December 30, 2012, 07:49:34 PM »
Rod & Andy.. I thank you both dearly for putting my mind at ease.

I will take your advise on board, but it's the last time I'll go with a call girl..

:) happy new year to you guys.


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