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Author Topic: Insertive fallatio  (Read 2883 times)

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Offline Doog

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Insertive fallatio
« on: November 29, 2012, 10:09:58 AM »
Hi Guys.

Could someone help me with a question? I've read the welcome material on giving a bj but hoped someone could comment on my fact pattern. I gave a guy a bj. He said he was negative and then later said he was positive undetectable. I swallowed his load but the semen was in my mouth only for a second or two and only in the back of my mouth (ie he shot straight into my throat). I have pretty good oral health but had a small canker sore under my tongue. The sore was very small and more in the middle of the bottom part of my tongue meaning Im not even sure any semen would have gotten on it.  It seems like the message on here is I have a better shot of winning the lotto than getting infection. Is this true? What is your assessment?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Insertive fallatio
« Reply #1 on: November 29, 2012, 10:39:08 AM »
Not an HIV concern. Saliva contains over a dozen different enzymes and proteins that ihibits HIV transmission, even if you have cankers sores or bleed gums.

Offline Doog

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Re: Insertive fallatio
« Reply #2 on: November 29, 2012, 11:17:39 AM »
Thank you. I was hoping that was going to be your response but kept going through the 'what ifs' in my head. This is a really terrific website filled with great information. Thank you.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Insertive fallatio
« Reply #3 on: November 29, 2012, 12:37:29 PM »
It's ok to get on with your life. You did not have a risk.

Just keep in mind the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as condoms are used everytime for those activities properly you will be well protected.
Andy Velez

Offline jkinatl2

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Re: Insertive fallatio
« Reply #4 on: November 29, 2012, 07:23:50 PM »
Just to clarify, what you described is RECEPTIVE fellatio, in that you received a penis into your mouth.

INSERTIVE fellatio is when you, well, insert your penis into someone... or in rural areas, something else's mouth.

Regardless, look at my signature line. Pretty much sums up my thoughts on the subject.
"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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