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Author Topic: Question: Fucking, Fingering Sucking and Blood  (Read 1930 times)

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Offline PlasticSteel

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Question: Fucking, Fingering Sucking and Blood
« on: November 03, 2012, 09:32:11 AM »
Hello All.

I'll dive straight in...

I had insertive anal sex with a guy (an unknown random)
lubed him up put on a condom started anal sex
While changing positions, I pulled out at one moment and saw there was some blood on the condom  (which was still in tact)
I took it off, gave my dick a wipe (no blood on my dick) and put a new condom on
The bottom lubed himself up again
I continued fucking (with a new condom)
The bottom wanked himself off (with the hand he lubed up with) as I fucked him
I pulled out when finished (nothing on the condom)
I then sucked the bottom off and fingered him
When he came I pulled my finger out there was the usual anal mucus with some blood (wiped off and got dressed)

Would just like some advice as to the level of risk with the activities involved.

Many thanks.

Offline jkinatl2

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Re: Question: Fucking, Fingering Sucking and Blood
« Reply #1 on: November 03, 2012, 01:34:41 PM »
The important part of this story is that you used a condom for penetrative sex. This is exactly all you needed to do to protect yourself from HIV.
"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Offline PlasticSteel

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Re: Question: Fucking, Fingering Sucking and Blood
« Reply #2 on: November 04, 2012, 09:57:00 AM »
Thank you jkinatl2,

I was just wondering about it with blood fluids and stuff.
Thanks again.


Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Question: Fucking, Fingering Sucking and Blood
« Reply #3 on: November 04, 2012, 11:41:52 AM »
You don't need to worry any further. JK has given you the real deal. HIV is a fragile virus and is only transmitted in the ways he indicated. Unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse are the only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV.

Andy Velez


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