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Author Topic: tried to insert in anal but failed  (Read 3127 times)

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Offline confusedmale

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tried to insert in anal but failed
« on: October 17, 2012, 10:23:37 AM »
me and my frend visited a prostitue 16 days ago .. my frend inserted in her anus(unprotected) and ejaculate in her anal ...then i tried to insert in her anal(unprotected) but i failed. (tried for 30 sec)..but then suddenly i feel it awkward...then i ask her for handjob and i ejaculate.."no penetration occur"

i am worrying ...
1.is rubbing/pressing penis over anal cause hiv?
2.what if my frends fluid over anal touches mine penis...???
i dnt knw status of my frend and that sexworker...
3 days ago(12th post exposure day) i had hiv1-2 antibody test ..it cme negative... should i have ny risk?? should i retest it

Offline confusedmale

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Re: tried to insert in anal but failed
« Reply #1 on: October 18, 2012, 12:19:28 AM »
anyone plzz reply

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Re: tried to insert in anal but failed
« Reply #2 on: October 18, 2012, 02:32:50 AM »
OK, you guys really need to use condoms.

Because with condoms, this is nothing to worry about at all.

As it stands, you hand had a low level risk. It's a risk, but I have not seen someone test positive over such an event inthe ten years I have been volunteering here.

So here goes:

At the six week mark, get tested. If it is negative (it will almost certainly be) then just test again at three months for a gold standard.

And after that, just use a condom for penetrative sex. That is ALL you need to do in order to prevent HIV. Hell, have oral sex all you want. Handies, fetishes, whatever. Just use a condom for penetrative anal and vaginal sex.

It's really that simple.

I honestly think you are going to come through this OK.

"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Re: tried to insert in anal but failed
« Reply #3 on: October 18, 2012, 06:03:06 AM »

Actually, it was your friend who had a risk, not you. You didn't have unprotected anal intercourse, but your friend did and he would be wise to test.

YOU did NOT have a risk as you did not have unprotected intercourse. What you did is the same thing as frottage (rubbing genitals together or on a body part, without penetration), and frottage is NOT a risk for hiv infection. It doesn't matter is your friend is hiv positive and you came into contact with his fluids on her body.

Hiv is a fragile, difficult to transmit virus that is primarily transmitted INSIDE the human body, as in unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse where the virus never leaves the confines of the two bodies.

Once outside the body, small changes in temperature, and pH and moisture levels all quickly damage the virus and render it unable to infect. For this reason, any fluids you came into contact with on her body were of no danger to you where hiv is concerned.

You and your friend BOTH need to wise up and start using condom for anal or vaginal intercourse.

Again, your friend needs to test over this specific incident, but YOU do not.

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Offline confusedmale

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Re: tried to insert in anal but failed
« Reply #4 on: October 23, 2012, 10:11:26 AM »
sme 2-3 pimples with puss grown over thigh jst near stomach and near neck...??? is it to worry ??

Offline RapidRod

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Re: tried to insert in anal but failed
« Reply #5 on: October 23, 2012, 07:53:42 PM »
No, reread what Ann advised you.


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