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Offline iamsorry

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oral sex with a cut on penis
« on: September 09, 2012, 07:08:09 AM »


       I received unprotected oral sex from a lady at massage parlous on mid of July.
When i gone home i discovered there was a cut on my penis i was so scared. I couldnt recall whether any of her blood /saliva from her mouth contacted with my cut.I couldnt sleep well for the pass few weeks.7 weeks later i went for a blood test and it was negative .by the way i was told that oral sex is safe and no one on earth infected by it.

1)My test was Anti-HIV 1&2 sceening(EIA method). May i know is it 3rd generation? how accurate it is on 7weeks?

2)should my case conclusive? I have been told no risk by many websites . Should i do a test again? or i never posed to any risk? Be frank i really dont want to do a blood test anymore if it is not necessary .

Thanks for you kindness and please help me. The bloodtest still can't calm me down.......anxious like hell.....

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Re: oral sex with a cut on penis
« Reply #1 on: September 09, 2012, 09:03:47 AM »

Getting a blowjob is absolutely NOT a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

Not one person has ever been infected through getting a blowjob and you are not going to be the first.

Unless you're in the habit of repeatedly punching a person in the mouth before they blow you, there could not possibly be enough blood present to cause the slightest bit of concern, not even with cuts on your penis.

Your seven week negative result is conclusive because you did NOT have a risk.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER A BLOWJOB, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv. Some of the other STIs can be present with no obvious symptoms, so the only way to know for sure is to test.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Offline iamsorry

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Re: oral sex with a cut on penis
« Reply #2 on: September 09, 2012, 09:16:01 AM »
thank you i was so scare even i 've got my result which is negative.

can you provide answer to my question?

1)My test was Anti-HIV 1&2 sceening(EIA method). May i know is it 3rd generation? how accurate it is on 7weeks?

I will only have sex we my Gf . no one else. swear god!

Offline RapidRod

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Re: oral sex with a cut on penis
« Reply #3 on: September 09, 2012, 09:18:34 AM »
Reread Ann's reply to you.

Offline iamsorry

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Re: oral sex with a cut on penis
« Reply #4 on: September 09, 2012, 09:35:01 AM »
sorry i just wanna know Anti-HIV 1&2 sceening(EIA method)belongs to which generation?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: oral sex with a cut on penis
« Reply #5 on: September 09, 2012, 09:53:21 AM »
You never had an exposure and you don't need testing.


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