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Author Topic: Stressed and Freaking out!!!  (Read 1236 times)

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Offline BlackCat83

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Stressed and Freaking out!!!
« on: July 02, 2012, 08:26:40 PM »
So I have read a lot of these posts and I was trying to see if someone else had a similar experience before I posted something, but I have not seen one. I fooled around with a one night stand about 48 hours ago. I was very stupid and did not ask his status (poz,neg) till we were already fooling around. When I finally asked he told me that he was Positive. I sorta freaked out, but I told myself that I should be fine as long as we used a condom, I asked for the condom and he told me that he could not find one right away but he would get it in a bit. We continued to mess around... Long story short, we basically mutally masturbated, and rubbed on each other aggessively for a long time, we did not do oral, but both our tips rubbed around the our anuses a few times and might have gone in for a few seconds here and there. We used alot of lube the whole time so I am not sure if there was any pre cum or not, but neither of us fully ejaculated. The last time I was tested was in March, and I was negative and STD free. What do I do now?

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Stressed and Freaking out!!!
« Reply #1 on: July 02, 2012, 08:29:51 PM »
Nothing that you did was a risk for HIV transmission.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Stressed and Freaking out!!!
« Reply #2 on: July 02, 2012, 10:30:50 PM »
I agree with Rod that nothing you did put you at risk for HIV.

But you need to learn to keep your own condoms handy for the future so that you don't end up being in a situation where you might slip into doing something risky like unprotected intercourse.

This time I don't see a problem.
Andy Velez


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