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Author Topic: Please help me, I need your advice..I did a very stupid thing!!!  (Read 1793 times)

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Offline stupidman111

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Hello to everybody,
First of all excuse me for my english, is not my mother tongue..
I've been reading you for quite a long time and I want to tell you all that you are all so nice and always ready to help people who are in troubles and so I thank you for that...
That's my problem :
6 days ago I went to a massage parlor in my city and I got a massage from a thai masseuse whose serologic status I don't really know... she seemed good but I know that this means nothing..anyway this was the most stupid thing I could ever do...
Well the girl started the classic massage all over my body and then, in the end, she told me if I wanted to finish with happy ending (handjob).  She did the handjob to me while I was unprotected and I also kissed very very briefly one of her nipples...I didn't notice if she had cut's or sores in her hands, frankly there was little light but I don't remember to have seen blood on my penis, or in my mouth when she kissed me.
Lastly she gave me a kiss and took my by surprise because i didn't want it aand i was regretting already to have done such a bad thing to my girlfriend ( I'm so deeply ashamed that I want to cry all the time..) who is away now but will be back soon, but the kiss wasn't a french kiss, but a very brief one, with no tongue at all and so I accepted the brief kiss. When I showered and clothed, she gave me another goodbye kiss but i totally and completely  closed my mouth and so she couldn't enter my mouth once again.
During the massage I touched her left tit and her butt and I forgot to say that during the massage there wasn't any kind of penetration, the girl was wearing her clothes all the time.
I wanted to know from you, please, if I have ever been at risk in such a situation and if I can have unprotected sex with my girlfriend because I don't want to put her in danger in case I should be infected and infect her and this is something I could never ever forgive to myself, I had rather throw myself off the window..
Do I need a test? Or SHould I move on with my life and forget the whole bad event ?
I thank you all once again for your precious help!!!

Offline stupidman111

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Re: Please help me, I need your advice..I did a very stupid thing!!!
« Reply #1 on: June 18, 2012, 11:26:01 AM »
Why is no one answering me??? :( :( :(

Offline stupidman111

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Re: Please help me, I need your advice..I did a very stupid thing!!!
« Reply #2 on: June 18, 2012, 11:41:16 AM »
Moderators of the forum Ann, Andy, RapidRod, Matty

Can I please have your opinion??

I'm quite worried!!


Thank you really VERY VERY VERY MUCH!!!

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Re: Please help me, I need your advice..I did a very stupid thing!!!
« Reply #3 on: June 18, 2012, 12:16:52 PM »
Under no possible circumstances is this even remotely an HIV concern.
"Many people, especially in the gay community, turn to oral sex as a safer alternative in the age of AIDS. And with HIV rates rising, people need to remember that oral sex is safer sex. It's a reasonable alternative."

-Kimberly Page-Shafer, PhD, MPH

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Offline stupidman111

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Re: Please help me, I need your advice..I did a very stupid thing!!!
« Reply #4 on: June 18, 2012, 01:05:13 PM »
Thank you so much for your answer jkinatl2,

I'll try to get over with it and move on with my life..

So now I can have sex with my girlfriend, right???

Thank you once again!!!

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Re: Please help me, I need your advice..I did a very stupid thing!!!
« Reply #5 on: June 18, 2012, 03:37:58 PM »
Yes.  You have been given an answer.  Those of us who answer to these type of questions are not around 24/7.

Please stop the drama and get on with your life. 
"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."


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