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Offline ari55

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receptive oral sex with bleeding gums
« on: March 24, 2012, 10:52:56 AM »
On December 30th I gave unprotected oral sex to a male of unknown status. There was no ejaculation and little precum I think I wiped it with my finger. 6 days later I developed a painless sore throat that had blood and white spots. I took some antibiotics and it went away. A few days later they became really swollen so I went to a clinic. I tested negative for mono,.strep, oral chlamydia and gonorrhea. she prescribed some antibiotics and I developed a white tongue. I went back because I read that a sore throa and,white tongue are symptoms of HIV.I was tested for yeast on my tongue and it was negative. could I be infected with HIV. The problem is that I have bleeding gums. If my gums did bleed during oral sex and there was precum could I be infected. I am  scared to get tested. Please advice.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: receptive oral sex with bleeding gums
« Reply #1 on: March 24, 2012, 11:10:21 AM »
Your own saliva contains over a dozen elements and proteins which serve as a very effective barrier to the transmission of viable HIV if it is present.

There is nothing HIV specific about your symptoms. I don't see this as an HIV situation and I don't see any need for HIV testing. If your symptoms continue you should discuss them with your doctor.
Andy Velez

Offline ari55

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Re: receptive oral sex with bleeding gums
« Reply #2 on: March 24, 2012, 11:47:18 AM »
Thanl you for your reply. Even if I had a small cut on my gums and it was actively bleeding during oral sex you don't recommend testing?

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Re: receptive oral sex with bleeding gums
« Reply #3 on: March 24, 2012, 12:48:25 PM »
No, I would still not consider that to be a risk that would warrant testing.

The only reason for you to get tested is if this is going to linger on in your mind. In which case for your peace of mind you can get tested and collect the inevitable negative result. It's up to you.
Andy Velez


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