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Offline idee

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« on: March 13, 2012, 10:41:14 PM »
I decided to not talk to my Mom. She is so full of hate and envy. It brings me down to hear her talk. I just want to be happy and I had plenty of bad moments. I just hope my Mom is happy what ever happens, she has my three siclings to watch over her. One just lent her money and I couldn't. Yet after she said it was just that I listen and that is enough, she mentions how my sister loaned her 3,000 dollars. Of course I am upset because if I had the ability I would do for her.
 Other than that I am on good terms with my child and hubby.
 On one hand she used to hug me even if I cut myself on accident. But then again she never had to make a deal like she was the only one who should touch me becuase she is old and my siblings still had their life to live.
 So I am kind of relieved about not talking to her. But something of me feels sorry for her like her middle child is turning her back on her.
 But she is so toxic!

Offline idee

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« Reply #1 on: March 13, 2012, 10:45:33 PM »
I mean to say I was miserable being her daughter, not her fault. But I want to be free and have fun.
I am HIV positive and I am tired of living like I am ashamed of myself.
I deserve it because I am going to live my life where I can live safely with my family without fear of my Mom bringing my health up with my neighbors.
She thinks because she is the mother of someone with HIV it's ok to tell the neighbors when I don't do as she wishes.


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