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Author Topic: Anxious!!  (Read 1320 times)

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Offline Heyeverybody

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« on: August 10, 2011, 09:02:41 AM »
Thanks for this forum it really has helped me with my fears and stress level.

I have a better understanding but my anxiousness is still there. I probably know my answer but it's always great to get other advice.

I have visited massage parlors numerous times. I never had sex vaginal or anal. My activities consisted of table showers, massage,mutual masturbation, sucked a few nipples, tit f***, had rug burns on penis from to much masturbation and girl would have deep fingered herself then masturbated me. I never had oral giving / receiving. Trying to remember anything else but I never had vaginal or anal sex.

My stress level around HIV has always been high. I won't get into symptoms and I am making myself crazy doing the self diagnostic online which is why I love this forum. Would love to know your thoughts. Thanks!!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Anxious!!
« Reply #1 on: August 10, 2011, 10:55:05 AM »
The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you always use condoms for those activities you will be well protected. It really is that simple.

Nothing you are reporting put you at risk for HIV. You are worrying needlessly. If you can't let go of this unwarranted fear then I suggest you see a counselor or other professional to deal with the problem. 
Andy Velez

Offline Heyeverybody

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Re: Anxious!!
« Reply #2 on: August 11, 2011, 02:40:54 PM »

Thanks for you insight. I agree that someone could help with my anxiety around HIV. I have always worried about any sexual contact and this forum has helped me with my understanding as well as opened my eyes to some myths like handjobs etc. that you find online. It would be best if I stay away from trying to diagnose every symptom online as everything turns out to be HIV related on the Internet. 

Thanks agin this is a great site and it continues to help me and everyone else with their questions!!

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Anxious!!
« Reply #3 on: August 11, 2011, 04:58:39 PM »
You're welcome. Glad you found the exchange to be helpful and that you are considering in what ways you can re-think some of the stuff that bothers you.

Best to you.
Andy Velez


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