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Author Topic: unprotected cunnilingus with a stripper  (Read 4798 times)

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Offline mok3

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unprotected cunnilingus with a stripper
« on: June 30, 2011, 08:49:57 PM »
      I have been to a strip club a week ago and had lap dances with 2 women (HIV Status Unknown).I kissed one dancer (deep kiss with saliva exchange) and also sucked her nipples and fingered her.Spent about 20 mins with here.
After a while i went out with another woman and performed cunnilingus for about  a min. I noticed that her vaginal fluids entered my mouth during this.I also licked her anus for 30 to 45 sec.
I generally have decent oral health and did not notice any cuts or sores in my mouth.But a couple of days back i have developed a flu (headache,running nose,sore throat,body pains and mild fever).I still have fever and body pains.
Please let me know
1.Did I really do something which would lead to HIV?
2.Is there a possibility that HIV symptoms show up before a week
3.how infectious/risky is  performing unprotected Oral (Anal) Vs  unprotected Oral (Vaginal)
4.I have read that kissing would not lead to HIV but how about deep french kiss?
5.Can the virus enter through an uncut mucous membrane (mouth)
6.Is there a test that could be taken before a weeks time of exposure?
Thanks a lot for reading and I really appreciate your reply
Thanks a lot!

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Re: unprotected cunnilingus with a stripper
« Reply #1 on: June 30, 2011, 09:01:26 PM »
1. No
2. No and you didn't have a risk.
3. Neither are HIV concerns.
4. Kissing of anykind will not transmit HIV.
5. No
6. No and you have no reason to test you never had an exposure.

Offline mok3

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Re: unprotected cunnilingus with a stripper
« Reply #2 on: June 30, 2011, 09:19:30 PM »
Thanks a lot for the quick reply..

now i feel a little confident that i never had a risk.The only thing that still worries me is the symptoms..I still have fever and body pains.I feel a lot tired aswell.Is there a way to differentiate between the symptoms of HIV and normal Flu?Is there a test that i can take to be sure??

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Re: unprotected cunnilingus with a stripper
« Reply #3 on: June 30, 2011, 09:29:01 PM »
HIV has no specific symptoms and again your symptoms have nothing to do with HIV.

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Re: unprotected cunnilingus with a stripper
« Reply #4 on: July 01, 2011, 06:47:44 AM »

1. The only true, proven sexual risks for hiv infection are unprotected anal or vaginal intercourse. You did not have a risk.

2. No. ARS, if it happens at all (and it often does not) takes two to three weeks to develop.

3. Anilingus is not a risk for hiv infection. Cunnilingus is not a risk for hiv infection.

4. Kissing is not a risk for hiv infection. Not only is saliva not infectious, but it also contains over a dozen different proteins and enzymes that damage hiv and render it unable to infect.

5. No. Hiv can only infect a very few, very specific types of cells and these cells are not found in abundance in the mouth. Add this together with the protective properties of saliva and it's not going to happen.

6. There are no short cuts to hiv testing. The vast majority of people who have actually been infected will seroconvert and test positive by six weeks, with the average time to seroconversion being only 22 days. A six week negative - where there has been a risk and you did NOT have a risk - must be confirmed at the three month point.

If you feel unwell, see a doctor. Whatever is going on has nothing to do with hiv as you did not have a risk for hiv infection. You do not need to test.

Here's what you need to know in order to avoid hiv infection:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST OVER A LAP DANCE, FINGERING, KISSING, ANILINGUS OR CUNNILINGUS, anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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