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Author Topic: Oral & Mutual Masturbation  (Read 2093 times)

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Offline chefpeyton

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Oral & Mutual Masturbation
« on: May 25, 2011, 09:24:15 AM »
I am a 28 y.o. male who has been in a monogamous relationship with another man for 2 years. Before we began having unprotected anal sex, we were both tested for HIV and we both negative. My partner has since been tested again as part of routine health screenings and is still negative. I have not had anal intercourse with any other man.

However, 3 weeks ago, I went to a strip club with friends in NYC and had a private dance for the first time. The dancer got completely naked, and masturbated himself and me. He also encourage me to do the same with him and myself (both sets of our hands we touching both of our penises/genitals). Neither of us came, but i did notice my hand was wet with pre-cum (his or mine or both, i am not sure). I did not notice sores, cuts, abrasions etc, on either of us.

In the middle of the dance, he very briefly performed very gentle oral sex on my penis, for less than 10 secs, until I stopped him. He also closed lips kissed me a few times.

It is my understanding that both oral sex and mutual masturbation are very low/no risk activities, but wanted to double check, since my partner and I have unprotected sex, I wanted to be sure that my night of silliness was not putting him at any risk. Of course I can get tested after 6 weeks, but wondered if that was even necessary given that there was no anal intercourse here.

Thank you.

Offline RapidRod

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Re: Oral & Mutual Masturbation
« Reply #1 on: May 25, 2011, 09:32:45 AM »
You do not have an HIV concern in the situation you've provided.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Oral & Mutual Masturbation
« Reply #2 on: May 25, 2011, 10:12:24 AM »
You may have been at risk for messing up your clothing, but you were certainly not in any way at risk for HIV.

The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse.

You are worrying needlessly about HIV.
Andy Velez


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