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Author Topic: Male-Male Encounter HIV-Risk  (Read 1894 times)

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Offline Eths11

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Male-Male Encounter HIV-Risk
« on: April 06, 2011, 06:10:14 PM »

on march 26,2011, I met up with a guy that I did not know, and I performed unprotected oral sex on him for about 20 seconds, and then we stopped.

Then we were going to try to penetrative sex, with me being receptive.

We used a condom, that I had, I put it on. However, he could not successfully penetrate, but more sore prodded the entrance. He gave up.

Asked that we just finish, by ourselves and then go our separate ways.

However, he left before that, and neither of us ejaculated.

I woke up the next morning feeling extreme remorse, because I do not know why I considered doing such a thing in the first place.
I examined the condom, there was no noticeable holes or tears.

I would like to know the HIV risk.

I got tested about 6 days after the incident, which I know is to soon, but relieved me and has allowed me to feel better, but do not know if I should feel as if I am ok, because I am worried about "counting my chickens before they hatch".

Should I get tested at 28 day mark again, and could this test be considered conclusive?

Please let me know!


Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Male-Male Encounter HIV-Risk
« Reply #1 on: April 06, 2011, 06:55:11 PM »
You are worrying needlessly. Nothing you did put you at risk for HIV this time. The guy who was attemtping to penetrate you was wearing a condom. That's exactly right. Condoms provide very effective protection. And the only confirmed risks sexually for HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal sex.

As long the insertive partner is always wearing a condom you will be well protected.

You weren't at risk with giving oral. Your saliva has over a dozen elements and protens which very effectively prevent the transmission of HIV.

There's no need for testing nor for further concern on your part. And it's good to read that you were thinking ahead enough to have a condom handy. Way to go!
Andy Velez


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