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Author Topic: OMG I did the guy who interviewed me. WTF.  (Read 12249 times)

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Offline thunter34

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Re: OMG I did the guy who interviewed me. WTF.
« Reply #50 on: March 29, 2011, 03:06:51 PM »
I think it's for the best, personally.  Not working right now, but when I am I don't like to have any outside friends, lovers or family there.  I prefer it to be my space and my thing totally.  I don't mind making friendships from work, but they generally remain in the "office friends" catagory

I like to leave the work away from home and the home away from work.  It helps to make each one an oasis from the other, if needed.
AIDS isn't for sissies.

Offline NycJoe

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Re: OMG I did the guy who interviewed me. WTF.
« Reply #51 on: March 29, 2011, 07:13:45 PM »
I agree.  For me, ideally work friends are work friends.  For instance I would not want work friends to be my friends on facebook and such.  My last boss wanted to befriend me on facebook.  I thought he was kidding.  I am a private person like that though.  Now this last situation with the interview was unexpected.  But we both acted appropriately and I think we would have had they offered and I accepted the job.  There was no emotion involved of course.  But again a fun story to tell in the future to friends.


Offline denb45

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Re: OMG I did the guy who interviewed me. WTF.
« Reply #52 on: March 29, 2011, 08:33:32 PM »
Yup work is , well work, play time is after work, and that shouldn't include sex w/ co-workers  ;)
 that's 2 different things I'm in agreement w/ both Tim & Joe  :)
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Offline mecch

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Re: OMG I did the guy who interviewed me. WTF.
« Reply #53 on: April 01, 2011, 06:49:11 AM »
It all depends on the personalities involved and the work setting.
I think co-workers can become friends.
And I also think co-workers can fall in love. Happens all the time.
“From each, according to his ability; to each, according to his need” 1875 K Marx


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