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Offline SCARRED1974

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Massage Encounter
« on: January 22, 2011, 11:12:12 AM »
Dear All

Thank you for the wonderful thing and advice you all are doing.

I need your kind assessment of my situation

2 Massage Parlour Encounters
Both: No Oral/Vaginal/Anal Sex (The massage lady always had panties on)
No Wet Kissing as well

What happened in Both:
She was topless (I am a male). She did an unprotected Handjob on me. Bit my nipples a bit: lots of saliva no blood as far as I could see. She kissed my neck, chest and ears very heavily...it was very wet
I rubbed her nipples with bare hands. Kissed on her kips, She rubbed top over me. I was naked.

Again she had panties on all through on both the occasions.

I am married and am ashamed of myself for this act. But I need a frank assessment of my risk and whether I can continue sexual relations with my wife

Please help.

Many Thanks


Offline RapidRod

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Re: Massage Encounter
« Reply #1 on: January 22, 2011, 12:02:21 PM »
You never had an exposure. Take the time to read the lesson section on transmission.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Massage Encounter
« Reply #2 on: January 22, 2011, 12:47:29 PM »
There was not the slightest possibility of HIV transmission in what you are reporting.

HIV is a fragile virus. The ONLY confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. That's it.

As a straying husband I suspect the real biggie in this situation is your guilt and shame over having strayed. Listen, you did what you did and it's a part of history now. Do yourself and everyone else concerned a big favor, take a breath, let it go and get on with your life.

There is no need for testing nor for further concern on  your part about these incidents.
Andy Velez


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