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Author Topic: Oral Sex on Woman, help!  (Read 1900 times)

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Offline bruceWorried

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Oral Sex on Woman, help!
« on: August 06, 2010, 07:05:13 PM »
Hi Andy, Ann.

I had been following this board for a long time. It has helped me a lot! My story is not too different but... I feel and have the need of telling it.

A few months ago I went to a massage saloon and had protected (she put on me 2 condoms at the same time, i know that friction might broke them but that did not happen) vaginal sex with a prostitute. I performed unprotected cunnilingus and she performed on me 2 fellatios with condom. My condoms never broke: during vaginal sex and during fellatios.

I performed cunnilingus on she for very short time, less then 2 minutes because I remember that she put lube on her vagina and I did not like the taste of it and cunnilingus was not deep at all.

I'm feeling worried because in a couple of weeks my first baby is going to born plus the fear of been infected with HIV.

I think I know what your answer is going to be, since I have reading this forum for a long time as I said but telling my case and reading your answer will get me the ease I need and I want to forget this episode on my life and enjoy my new baby.

- What is my risk for HIV for that unprotected cunnilingus? Should I stop thinking about it? Am I worrying worthless?

Sorry for my poor english!!! (not my main language).

Thanks and great work on this forum!



Offline bruceWorried

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Re: Oral Sex on Woman, help!
« Reply #1 on: August 06, 2010, 07:08:31 PM »
Just wanted to add that I never had any symptoms...


Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Oral Sex on Woman, help!
« Reply #2 on: August 06, 2010, 07:13:12 PM »
Nothing you did put you at risk for HIV transmission. Condoms are unnecessary for oral sex.

You only need to use them for vaginal or anal intercourse.

In the future use only one condom at a time. Fortunately when you doubled them up they didn't break this time, but doubling them can cause breakage. A single latex condom will give you all the protection that you need.

You are worrying needlessly about HIV. There is no need for further concern about this incident and no need for testing.

Andy Velez

Offline bruceWorried

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Re: Oral Sex on Woman, help!
« Reply #3 on: August 06, 2010, 07:23:42 PM »
Oh Andy, you can't image how much had you helped me with your reply!

Not only because your reply, also I had the MUST of telling my story to someone...

Thanks a lot again!


Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Oral Sex on Woman, help!
« Reply #4 on: August 06, 2010, 10:41:24 PM »
Glad you found our exchange to be helpful, Bruce.

Cheers and peace.
Andy Velez


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