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Offline v_worried

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« on: July 20, 2010, 07:02:08 AM »

i gave a guy a handjob and want to know what is the risk of getting HIV from having his cum on my hands? I did have a recently popped small blister on the back of my finger and not sure if it came into contact with it.

I also briefly inserted a finger in him and it was a little slimy (different hand).

Thank you

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: Worried
« Reply #1 on: July 20, 2010, 07:18:35 AM »
You cannot contract HIV from handjobs, given or received blisters or no blisters. Nor can you contract HIV from fingering someone else's arsehole.

HIV is transmitted via unprotected anal and vaginal sex, sharing contaminated needles and syringes and in some cases from an HIV positive mother to her unborn baby.

You do not need to be tested for HIV.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread and follow the links to our lessons on HIV transmission.


Offline v_worried

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Re: Worried
« Reply #2 on: July 20, 2010, 07:24:52 AM »
Thank you for your very prompt reply to my question. I hoped that would be the answer, i just needed to ask to put my mind at rest.

Thanks again

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« Reply #3 on: May 02, 2015, 08:36:44 AM »
Hi, i am aware HIV cannot be passed on by oral sex but do i need to get tested as the tip of my penis touched an anus? There was no penetration, I'm sure i would have known if there was. Thank you in advance.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: Worried
« Reply #4 on: May 02, 2015, 08:52:48 AM »
It's a rule of the site that members must keep all of their entries in the same thread. Your posting are all together here now and this is the only thread you should use. Thanks for your cooperation.

As to your new concern, once again you are worried unnecesarily. Your penis touching the other guy's anus without penetration is not a risk for HIV. The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse.

You don't have to get tested for HIV.

You do need to remember that other STDs are much easier to transmit than HIV. We advise anyone who is sexually active to at least annually if not every 6 months to have a full STD panel done to make certain you haven't picked anything up.

Andy Velez


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