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Author Topic: *Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.  (Read 1760 times)

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Offline StacheBC

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*Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.
« on: June 08, 2010, 11:35:44 PM »
Well I met this fantastic guy on Poz Personals...

We met for coffee... to be honest I wasn't expecting much.. but for once he looked like his picture. He was a little older than people I normally date... he is 12 years my senior... yet strikingly handsome. He defined himself as a Top... while I normally date versatile and/or bottoms.
He is on disability.... (HIV for 17 years with a heart attack in between) but has his finances and shit more together then many people that work full time.

Ever since that coffee we usually spend a night or two during the week together... and usually he is at my place or I'm at his for the weekend.

He is the first poz guy I ever dated... since becoming poz myself... and I can't describe how liberating it feels. From the meds we both take before going to bed... to just a sense of understanding of what it is to live with this virus.  Would not rule ever dating a Neg guy... but Poz and Poz there is a certain understanding that goes beyond.

He is a bit more independent then men I normally date...  saying that he wants to date me for the long term... yet likes that fact that we have our own places and spaces... that it's not uncommon for him to take off and spend 6 to 7 weeks in Mexico during winter, knowing very well due to my work I can't always go with him.... although I also should be able to have my own "fun" if he is away...

Love making is the most sensual thing I ever experienced...   I never had experience some light bondage until he came along... and maybe for the first time in my life having someone that shares the dominant role in bed. He calls it "Vanilla with an edge"... I call Fucking incredible.

He reminds me how attractive he thinks I am every time I see him... He calls because he wants to hear my voice.... Although he is independent he makes time for me.

We're still getting to know each other.... but I'm on cloud 9 and a bit scared.... hopeful....  moonstruck.

If things go sour.... and sometimes they do... I know I can come here for support.... so some of you bitches can tell me "I told you so!!!! "  ;D
Mauricio (StacheBC).

Offline Matty the Damned

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Re: *Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.
« Reply #1 on: June 08, 2010, 11:44:34 PM »

That sounds so cool. Congrats baby.  :-*


Offline Hellraiser

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Re: *Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.
« Reply #2 on: June 08, 2010, 11:46:03 PM »
Had wondered where you wandered off to.  I Hope it goes well and please do keep us informed.

Offline GSOgymrat

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Re: *Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.
« Reply #3 on: June 08, 2010, 11:49:19 PM »
Sound like you guys are really hitting it off. Have fun! :)

Offline leatherman

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Re: *Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.
« Reply #4 on: June 09, 2010, 12:10:12 AM »
WooHoo!  ;D That's really good news to hear, you lucky dawg!

hugs and love from me and the boyz :-*
leatherman (aka mIkIE)

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Offline Rev. Moon

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Re: *Sigh* almost 2 months of dating. Moonstuck.
« Reply #5 on: June 09, 2010, 12:15:58 AM »
Awww :) congrats, Stache. Have fun and lots of kinky, steamy sex. Hope that it lasts a good while (the relationship, that is).
"I have tried hard--but life is difficult, and I am a very useless person. I can hardly be said to have an independent existence. I was just a screw or a cog in the great machine I called life, and when I dropped out of it I found I was of no use anywhere else."


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