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Offline juggle

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andy and ann..i need advice
« on: June 03, 2010, 07:16:25 PM »
yesterday me and my girlfriend was playing with each other...we didnt have condoms so we didnt have sex..so we caressed each other..i went into the bathroom and saw i had small amount of liquid on my shirt..i seriously dont know if iit was her or mines..i put the shirt up to my nose to smell it and got a it on my lip..would this be a risk for transmission..help needed

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: is this a risk..
« Reply #1 on: June 03, 2010, 07:31:29 PM »
It doesn't whose liquid it was. That was a no risk incident.

It's good to know that you won't have intercourse without using a condom. The ONLY confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse. As long as you always use condoms for those things you will be well protected against the sexual transmission of HIV.

Read our lesson on Transmission. There's a link to it in the welcome thread which opens this section.

This time you are worrying needlessly.

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Re: is this a risk..
« Reply #2 on: June 03, 2010, 07:43:28 PM »
why wasnt it a risk..it touched my lips..andy why wasnt it a risk..the liquid was clear colored..like water..i think it must have been mines

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Re: is this a risk..
« Reply #3 on: June 03, 2010, 07:49:21 PM »
Because HIV is transmitted in very specific ways. Unprotected anal and vaginal sex, for example. It has to be transmitted inside the body. You cannot contract HIV by getting some unknown fluid on your lips.

Please take the time to read our Welcome Thread and follow the links to our lessons on HIV transmission.


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Re: is this a risk..
« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2010, 08:07:36 PM »
sorry to be a pest.. but suppose she was infected..would the fluid infect me..or would it go down my throat..why wasnt this a risk..can u elaborate guys.

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Re: is this a risk..
« Reply #5 on: June 03, 2010, 08:46:44 PM »
No you wasn't at risk even if she was HIV positive. HIV is unable to reproduce outside its living host (unlike many bacteria or fungi, which may do so under suitable conditions), except under laboratory conditions, therefore, it does not spread or maintain infectiousness outside its host.

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Re: is this a risk..
« Reply #6 on: June 04, 2010, 07:44:54 AM »
Instead of just llisting to your uninformed and scary what ifs, please read our lesson on Transmission as I suggested earlier.
Andy Velez

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andy and ann..i need advice
« Reply #7 on: February 05, 2011, 04:28:37 PM »
what are my risk of getting infected..if i used a condom for sex.. but i tongue kissed a girl i had met..suppose i had small cuts on my had and her vaginal fluids came in contact with those cuts /scratches..will i get infected..do i need to test over this incident..

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Re: andy and ann..i need advice
« Reply #8 on: February 05, 2011, 04:36:05 PM »

I've merged your new thread into your original thread - where you should post all your additional thoughts or questions. It helps us to help you when you keep all your additional thoughts or questions in one thread. It doesn't matter how long it has been since you last posted in your thread or if the subject matter is different.

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Protected intercourse is not a risk for hiv infection.

Kissing is not a risk for hiv infection, no matter how deeply you kiss.

Fingering, regardless of the presence of cuts or scrapes or hangnails or whatever, is also not a risk for hiv infection.

You'd know this if you bothered to read the Transmission Lesson like Andy asked you to last summer.

Here's what you need to know in order to remain hiv negative:

You need to be using condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, every time, no exceptions until such time as you are in a securely monogamous relationship where you have both tested for ALL sexually transmitted infections together.

To agree to have unprotected intercourse is to consent to the possibility of being infected with an STI. Sex without a condom lasts only a matter of minutes, but hiv is forever.

Have a look through the condom and lube links in my signature line so you can use condoms with confidence.

ALTHOUGH YOU DO NOT NEED TO TEST SPECIFICALLY OVER KISSING, FINGERING OR PROTECTED INTERCOURSE Anyone who is sexually active should be having a full sexual health care check-up, including but not limited to hiv testing, at least once a year and more often if unprotected intercourse occurs.

If you aren't already having regular, routine check-ups, now is the time to start. As long as you make sure condoms are being used for intercourse, you can fully expect your routine hiv tests to return with negative results.

Don't forget to always get checked for all the other sexually transmitted infections as well, because they are MUCH easier to transmit than hiv.

Use condoms for anal or vaginal intercourse, correctly and consistently, and you will avoid hiv infection. It really is that simple!

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Offline juggle

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Re: andy and ann..i need advice
« Reply #9 on: February 07, 2011, 05:58:52 PM »
sorry to bother u guys again..but i was on the cdc website and they said kissing was a risk for transmission.. they also said the virus can be transmitted through broken skin..why would they say that and u guys say something different..

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Re: andy and ann..i need advice
« Reply #10 on: February 07, 2011, 06:11:36 PM »
We're not responsible for what you can find on other websites. I can guarantee you that if you keep searching around on the web you will find lots to feed your worst fears and all to no good purpose.

What we tell you is HIV-science based. Kissing is absolutely not a risk for HIV transmission.

Sure a break in the skin is a risk if you have a large and just fresh openly bleeding wound into which HIV positive blood is being poured. Is that what your situation was? No? I didn't think so.

You are worrying needlessly. Give it up and get on with your life and just make sure to to always use condoms for intercourse. By doing that you will be well protected against the sexual transmission of HIV. It is just that simple.
Andy Velez


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