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Author Topic: Living in fear  (Read 1370 times)

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Offline SWISS

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Living in fear
« on: February 04, 2010, 06:42:29 PM »

I have been panicking over this for a while now and I just don't know what to do. Here is what happened, it happened from October to December 2009:

I met a guy on the internet and we met up, and we were going to have sex. I put on a condom, but I couldn't get myself comfortable with my foreskin so I didn't really enter. Although I think the tip of my penis did enter, but this was with a condom? Is there a chance of HIV infection? I had several blowjobs from the same guy, again, is there a risk of infection? This happened a few times.

Also, I am not sure if one time I took off the condom and tried, but I know I NEVER actually had sex with him. I was the inserting partner. I am not sure if I did, I am about 95% sure I kept the condom on. But I fear I might of tried without. But we never had sex. Is there still a risk for HIV infection?

I have had a few "symptoms", such a tiredness. Although I think that is from going to bed late. And anal pain, nothing really painful but just sort of hurts? And one time after using the toilet there was a small amount of blood on the paper. But this has never happened again, and it was just a very small amount.

Please help me, do I have HIV? Thank you for your help and time, it is much appreciated.


Offline SWISS

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Re: Living in fear
« Reply #1 on: February 04, 2010, 06:43:51 PM »
I forgot to add, I did ask him and he said he does not have HIV. I don't have a reason to doubt him.

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Re: Living in fear
« Reply #2 on: February 04, 2010, 06:57:03 PM »
Receiving oral is absolutely not a risk for the transmission of HIV. Nor are fondling, mutual masturbation, rubbing and kissing. The only confirmed risks for the sexual transmission of HIV are unprotected vaginal and anal intercourse.

But nothing you have described suggests to me that you have actually had unprotected intercourse. As long as you consistently without exception use a condom for anal intercourse you will be well protected.

As far as I can tell you're worrying needlessly. If you are having some symptoms that bother you that is something to discuss with your doctor. They have nothing to do with HIV. 
Andy Velez


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