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Author Topic: Husband with low numbers, me with decent ones...what next?  (Read 4217 times)

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Offline blackcat28

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Husband with low numbers, me with decent ones...what next?
« on: November 11, 2009, 10:39:27 pm »
Hi all -

First time poster here.  Thank you all for your openness, honest, and kindness.  It helps to read these postings.

Anyway, my husband and I tested positive this year and have both just gone to our doctors this fall.  We are semi certain that our infection date was approximately 3 years ago.  We didn't know we were positive until I had a test related to a life insurance policy I was applying for (denied...lol...go figure).

So our test results have recently came back, mine came back pretty good - CD4 692 - but he was not so lucky.  His CD4 was 112.  He must be what they refer to as a "fast progressor."  The doctor started him on Bactrim immediately while they waited for his Genome test to come back.  He went back to the doctor today and he was put on Atripla.  He just took his first pill 5 minutes ago.  He did mention that the pill was huge!

My question in this: is he going to be ok?  I need him to be around for me and our families for a long time.  We are scared and worried.  Is the Atripla going to fix him?  Is it enough?  What can we expect next?  If his numbers do come up, are we out of the woods?  And if so, for how long?

I am sorry if these questions sound dumb, we are just looking for some real stories here as well as a little support.

Thank you all!

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Re: Husband with low numbers, me with decent ones...what next?
« Reply #1 on: November 12, 2009, 12:57:13 pm »
Welcome to the forums. 

You will probably both do just fine.  It's good that he started Atripla and Bactrim before he actually got sick with anything.  There is the potential for some heightened risk over the next few months as he gets his immune system back up and running, but it isn't very likely he will have problems.

You might find the lessons on this site helpful (and comforting) too.  They are here  http://www.aidsmeds.com/articles/Introduction_4702.shtml

Hope things go well and we hear more from you

5/06 VL 1M+, CD4 22, 5% , pneumonia, thrush -- O2 support 2 months, 6/06 +Kaletra/Truvada
9/06 VL 3959 CD4 297 13.5% 12/06 VL <400 CD4 350 15.2% +Pravachol
2007 VL<400, 70, 50 CD4 408-729 16.0% -19.7%
2008 VL UD CD4 468 - 538 16.7% - 24.6% Osteoporosis 11/08 doubled Pravachol, +Calcium/D
02/09 VL 100 CD4 616 23.7% 03/09 VL 130 5/09 VL 100 CD4 540 28.4% +Actonel (osteoporosis) 7/09 VL 130
8/09  new regimen Isentress/Epzicom 9/09 VL UD CD4 621 32.7% 11/09 VL UD CD4 607 26.4% swap Isentress for Prezista/Norvir 12/09 (liver and muscle issues) VL 50
2010 VL UD CD4 573-680 26.1% - 30.9% 12/10 VL 20
2011 VL UD-20 CD4 568-673 24.7%-30.6%
2012 VL UD swap Prezista/Norvir for Reyataz drop statin CD4 768-828 26.7%-30.7%
2014 VL UD - 48
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Offline Sebastian1969

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Re: Husband with low numbers, me with decent ones...what next?
« Reply #2 on: November 12, 2009, 03:43:07 pm »
Welcome, you are going to find a lot of good, open and honest information on this site.
My BF started Atripla on October 6, his numbers were CD4's 106 and his Viral load was 190,000
On November 3 he had another blood draw and when the numbers came back he was at CD4's 134 and Viral load 830, amazing progress for one month of meds.
Our doctor told us of a 80 year old woman he has treated for HIV over the past years and when she started Atripla her CD4 count was 4 and her viral load was over 3,000,000 and after Atripla she has had CD counts over 1000 and undetectable viral load for over a year. 
I understand your fear and worry, but think positive and see where his levels are at the next blood draw.  Reading the stories of people on here and their successes helped me to get through that first month of worrying, the posts and stories let me know that there is hope, and there is a very good chance my boyfriend would be better off in time after taking meds.
Hang in there, you guys are in my thoughts.

Offline webontheweb

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Re: Husband with low numbers, me with decent ones...what next?
« Reply #3 on: November 12, 2009, 09:15:37 pm »
You will both be okay,  my partner started cd4 10 and is now over 600 on atripla,  it is taking me a bit longer to get my cd 4 up but I am not sick, have not gotten sick and follow the regimen.
You WILL be okay!

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Re: Husband with low numbers, me with decent ones...what next?
« Reply #4 on: November 13, 2009, 09:18:13 am »
Hi Blackcat, welcome to the forums.

I've moved your thread from the "Someone I Care About" forum into the "Just Tested Poz" forum. As you are also poz, this is the more appropriate place for you to post. The "Someone" forum is for people who have a loved one or friend who is hiv positive, while they themselves are not.

There is every reason to believe your husband is going to be just fine. We have quite a few members here who have had even worse numbers than his and are doing good - great, even - now.

Hang in there, Blackcat. While the first year of diagnosis is bound to be a roller-coaster ride of emotions, it will eventually settle down. You're both going to be ok.

If you haven't already, you might want to read through the forum's main Welcome Thread (found in the Living forum), where you will find links to other sections of this website that you may find useful, such as the Lessons. If you have any questions after reading the Lessons, please feel free to come back into the forums to ask whatever questions you have. Remember, there's no such thing as a stupid question.

Hang in there!
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