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Author Topic: One mistake and far away from home.  (Read 1617 times)

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Offline Folie

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One mistake and far away from home.
« on: March 17, 2009, 03:48:17 AM »
Hello everybody.

This is my story and I am already sorry for my bad english.

I am on a longer trip in Asia. In Philippines I went to this bar and found (or she found me) this nice girl. She was nice the whole night and we got little bit drunk (not too much). Then of course the story continues with sex and so on.

I used protection but after the sex I noticed that the girl had period and there was blood. The condom did not break. I washed up.

In the morning we had sex second time and I also weared condom at that time also. Then she of course lets me know that she is a prostitute. I was so blue eyed that I didnīt get it before (someone can believe me or you donīt but I feel also bad about that fact that she was a prostitute).

Now Iīm really scared that Iīm HIV + and I went to the test. It was about 4 weeks from that incident and it was negative. I had also my 13 weeks test scheduled.

I know that you donīt know from the symptoms that if youīre infected or not but after 5 or so weeks after I had very soar throat for one week.

I know you should think everything else than this but I can not get it from my mind. This is one way to me to tell somebody. Thank you for your answers in advance.


Offline RapidRod

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Re: One mistake and far away from home.
« Reply #1 on: March 17, 2009, 05:08:28 AM »
You didn't have a risk. You had protected sex.

Offline Andy Velez

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Re: One mistake and far away from home.
« Reply #2 on: March 17, 2009, 08:24:38 AM »
Folie, any details you give about her menstruating and such become irrelevant in terms of risk when a condom has been used. Condoms provide very effective protection during vaginal and anal intercourse. When you use a condom the HIV status of of the person you are with is irrelevant.

You have no cause for concern about HIV in relation to this incident. There is no need for testing.

As for your symptoms, if they persist you should discuss them with your doctor. They have nothing to do with HIV.
Andy Velez


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